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We're Getting Nowhere: "The L Word" Season 1 "Looking Back"

Recapping this week's episode of The L Word, Jill, Dara and Karman discuss why Dinah Shore is much crazier than it's depicted in this episode; why road trips are fun; and why sometimes it's best not to go to great lengths to save money.

Plus: why Toxic Tonya is also tasty; why Karman was a "hundred-footer" as a child, and if it's possible to tell a dog lesbian vs. a cat lesbian.

We're Getting Nowhere: The L Word S1 "Looking Back"

Check back next Thursday for another episode, and watch previous episodes here.

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  • JasmeenKru's picture

    Oh yah!!!!

    Oh yah!!!!

    It's up. Two more episodes left. The countdown begins.

    **Runs off to watch video**

    Alyssa12's picture

    ohh ooo

    halarious as usual.

    there are only 8 eisodes in the final season. you guys HAVE to do it!! lol

    it cant end with season one.

     bob, enzyme?

     

    sarahwarn's picture

    WGN going out on top

    I know some of you still have more questions about why We're Getting Nowhere is ending, so I wanted to explain a little more about it. I decided to end the show because, after a year of almost non-stop weekly vlogging, it seemed to be becoming more work than fun for some of the vloggers, and it was obvious from the comments and video streams that you all were noticing this, too. I spoke with Jill, Dara and Karman about this a few times, and it became clear that there wasn't an easy way to resolve it, given everyone's busy schedules, other projects, etc.

    So, in the spirit of knowing when to leave the party, it felt like it was time for me to make the call, and free the vloggers up to work on other projects they might be more passionate about. I know many of you are disappointed, but all good things comes to an end at some point, and I hope we can all focus on the wonderful impact the WGN vloggers have had on the AfterEllen.com community, and look forward to seeing them in other projects on the site.

    Angie5x5's picture

    WGN going out too soon


    I respect your decision to end WGN, but I still think it was a bit hasty. Some of the vlogs recapping season 1 of The L Word were noticeably weaker than what we had come to expect from them, but that's just a testament to how great they can be together, and their recent episodes have been completely up to par with earlier vlogs.

    Once a week may be too much, and re-capping an old show probably wasn't the best idea, but why not have them get together once a month, or for limited runs? At least give us a farewell episode. Sorry, I'm still in the bargaining stage of grief.

    I've been reading AfterEllen since 2002 and I'm impressed with what you've done with it over the years. We're Getting Nowhere was such an important part of that growth, it's going to feel like a limb has been severed. I enjoy most of the other vlogs, but nothing compares to Jill, Dara and Karman together. Best wishes and good luck to them with whatever they go on to do.

    dimhalo2985's picture

    thats what she said

    While it will be sad to see WGN go I totally understand the choice to end it.  It was always funny (seriously there were a few times I couldn't breathe I was laughing so hard); and Jill, Karmen and Dara rocked it out every week.

     

    So sad to see it go but looking forward to seeing them succeed in their new endeavors!  Thanks for a awesome vlog!

     

     

     

    JasmeenKru's picture

    ahhh I see why you`re Editor in Chief

    Good call Sarah. As much as I hate to see the end of WGN. When its time to go its time to go. Shoot, I`d watch them watching paint dry :D. They`ve made a wonderful impact on the site, I wish them all the best. Besides I know they`ll be around ;) in some capacity.
    tracy.'s picture

    Thanks for the backstory on

    Thanks for the backstory on WGN ending, Sarah.

    I can understand a bit better the position everyone was in, concerning the show.

    It does seem to be the logical step. I know that Jill will be doing the 2nd season of 3Way (*yay*!), Karman is doing YCTTA!. Finding the time to do everything would have surely proved a problem, sooner or later. But I would be lying if I didn't say I'm still sad about it. But as mentioned above, there are still many ways that we can stay in touch with the terrible 3. :)

    (I do hope they do the odd show here and there for special occasions! *cross fingers*)

    emmaxx's picture

    doesn't work?

    Does this not work for anyone else? It stops after the ad, which has never happened to me before.

    Any suggestions?

    sarahwarn's picture

    Try a different browser

    What your describing happens to me a lot (with all different kinds of videos) in Firefox, but never happens in IE. Others have reported the opposite. So I would just suggest watching it another browser (in general, my advice is for everyone to have two different browsers, even though they'll only use one as their primary one - there's almost always something that works in one browser but not the other).
    purple_squirrel's picture

    my thinkings on the matter..

    I agree, its good to have many browsers.. while I am pretty sure I prefer firefox, many things (not all and I'm seeing more and more pages which say they work best in firefox) are created with IE in mind which I guess makes sense since it's the default for windows users and many people don't even think about trying anything else.  I had a problem one time submitting an essay before a deadline because the Opera browser kept telling my my password was wrong when actually it wasn't, and it was only when I switched to IE that I could submit it (too late sadly), so that's even worse that something not working, 'cus it didn't say it didn't work, it mislead me and made me waste loads of time.  SO thats a cautionary tale of why to keep IE even if you use other browsers more because had IE had an incompatability everybody would have known about it, it was my having a lesser used, less combatible browser which caused the problem.

    Personally I find the video sometimes stops after the ad (which often has audio even when muted) when I have many tabs/stuff open esp. other vids, its like it can't handle it or something, I find its less likely to happen if I am on that tab until the ad is safetly gone and the actual vlog has started (sometimes press play and mute it whilst the ad loads hence me discovering those two things).  Personally using what I just said as a guide I've always got it to work within a few tries and never actually tried it in IE but that may be an easier option.

    Finally, I found an addon for firefox called "IE Tab" which lets you open a link in an IE tab https://addons.mozilla.org/en-US/firefox/addon/1419  - The description says "This is a great tool for web developers, since you can easily see how your web page displayed in IE with just one click and then switch back to Firefox," so it may be that the change is only aesthetic and doesn't actually mean it'll make stuff work in firefox which would usually only work in IE, I have no idea since I don't know stuff about this stuff.. :S but maybe it does, who knows?

    I hoped I helped :)

    edit: I just found this comment on the "IE Tab" reviews section which indicated it probably would be useful in this situation.

    " by TampaTom on July 7, 2008

    I've been a grateful user of IE Tab for years and it has never let me down. Netflix (streaming movies) and other websites that only support IE work perfectly when I click that little icon in the bottom right thanks to PCMan!!!"
    Dearlylovedaimee's picture

    Try this...

    Firefox seems to be having compatibility issues with the flash plug-in! (They'll never admit that but it's true!) Sarah is exactly right, you should always have IE no matter what. A majority of the programs created were only made to support that browser. Plus it's the standard in every company! Yada yada yada!

    So try this. Instead of viewing the video on the same page that lists all the other posts by a writer, click into the page that lists the comments! It works for me every time!

    You can also try removing the flash plug-in and re-installing it. That will get tedious after a while but will work!

    Good luck!

    redleaf's picture

    happens to me sometimes

    i just restart my comp.
    januarygirl's picture

    Harkens

     

    you guys can't stop where we will i get my weekly vocab lessons it's the best part of the episode...well at least it's in the top five.

    plumber parallelogram so funny.

     

     

     

     

    "But I dream of flight, not to be as the angels are, but to rise above te smallness of it all. The smallness that I am. Against the daily death the iconography of wings."

    Dearlylovedaimee's picture

    This was hilarious...

    "You can spot a lesbian by how they walk!"

     

    Truer words were never spoken! I have my dad's stride and I don't walk like a woman at all! Except most people can't tell I'm a dyke! They get so flabbergasted when I finally tell them! They are surprised to meet a lesbian that doesn't mind men, can't fix anything, is not a vegitarian, despises sports with a passion, knows jack about a car, and doesn't own a piece of flannel! Who knew we existed?

    But seriously this cracked me up! I loved what you ladies said about Dinah! And that reenactment was priceless! I love Jill's children! I'm more of a dog lesbian, but I'll fall for any animal that wants some lovin'! Yeah, I know I'm easy! Also, Jill why do a lot of you stories involve booze? Girl, try some water LOL! I'm teasing! I'm the only person I know who doesn't drink! I have nothing against people who do, I just never acquired a taste for it! But I would be more than willing to be Jill's designated driver! And Karmen's and Bridget's...okay I'm back! Oh and Dara you forever own a special place in my heart for the pink triangle comment! I love you!

    I can't wait for the next two episodes but it will be so bittersweet! I don't know how I'll survive without you ladies any more! *Sighs*

    "I hate people, they hate me. So doesn't that classify as a healthy, functioning relationship?"

    jandra-cs's picture

    Awesome

    Only two more episodes left, is so sad, but anyway.

    I have to say that I love this episodes, specially the part when they talk about how you can "identify" a lesbian, that was hilarious. Congrats girls!!! YOU ARE THE BEST!!!

    lezgirllover's picture

    I think my cousins are my pets

    Hehe and I´m told I´m mean but they like it!

    Thanks for the drinking advice it is always appreciated and a great way to save money. The reenactments were hilarious as always.

    LNT's picture

    i want some coca cola now...

    that was so funny in the reinactment 'my budget can handle just about anything' haha good line, also talking about the hundred footer, my gaydar is rubbish lol. i can't believe these vlogs will be finishing soon can't you create a new one called lesbo lingo for begginers?jokes. you ladies rule, im off to get a can of coke...good advertising :D
    dimhalo2985's picture

    It's not viagra

    I think the product they were thinking of is enzyte

     

    Hiliarious as usual ladies

    MadRobyn27's picture

    The plumbers parallelogram

    I can't get over the re-enactments in this episode...F-ing GENIUS! So dirty in all the right ways! Jill should seriously consider comedy, she had me laughing out of my chair.

    "I can't believe I'm about to go down on Dana Fairbanks." ...Was I the only one whose legs clamped together watching that scene!? I think I even let out a little yelp for Dana the on the first viewing. Creepy!

    Lastly, some stereotypes have merit...I've been told my whole life that I walk like a guy. And even though I can't put my finger on it (no pun intended) there really is something different about the way straight girls talk and walk. The dead give away for me is watching girls hug people. I can always tell. Weird.

    ~Robyn (a cat person)

    oriana2110's picture

    <3 u guys!

    And Im gonna miss you together!!!

    A dog lezzy ~ Oriana

    jeepdawg_34's picture

    Thanks for the sexy Geometry lesson!

    Nice smirk Dara (in the screen cap). You lil' devil!

    Alice's coming out story was the best! So true that it was all Leisha. It is going to be interesting to watch how the spin-off unfolds.

    As usual the reenactments were hilarious.

    I've never been to the Dinah, but I have been to Womens Fest in Key West. Nothing scarier that drunk lesbians on scooters! Except, when you see them later on crutches with bloody scars. Ahh, good times.

    Thanks for the afternoon laugh break!

     

    Batman's picture

    this is bob... do do dodododo do dodo...

     

    those natural male enhancement commercials are so funny...

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    Fires's picture

    Well,

    great vlog as always. You guys are so funny..

    I just can't believe it... two more episodes.. :(

    I'm gonna miss you sooo much! Please come back someday for some more WGN!

    LOVE YOU, FIRES.

    cbaker3333's picture

    Interviews with the ladies of WGN

    I am really going to miss this vlog- I watched the very first recap and have been a fan ever since.

    tellofilms.com has some fantastic video interviews with Dara, Karman and Jill- as well as other afterellen vloggers.  

    http://www.tellofilms.com/action/viewvideo/394/Interview_with_Dara_Nai/

    Check out and upload great lesbian videos on www.tellofilms.com

    the fallen's picture

    Cheap friends.

    A friend of mine was pointing that same thing  out about how in  every group of friends there is one who never pays what they really should for dinner, or always seems to hit the dance floor just as their turn to buy a round comes up. She  said there wasn't anyone  like that in our little group though.... Of course that was because  our resident cheapskate was HER.
    too.shy's picture

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    danamitey's picture

    sponser?

    I just have to ask was coca cola the sponser of this show?

    It was reallllllly distracting

    loved the re-enactment!

    Shele's picture

    Hah, I was thinking that Dara is so organized

    All of her stuff was piled up in front of her and her notes were even typed.  Karman and Jill probably had their drinks on the end tables.  But, yeah, the coke can was front and center.
    Stephx's picture

    yeah i noticed it too... i

    yeah i noticed it too... i think Dara probably shouldn't have had the can in the shot if they weren't sponsoring the show... but i don't really know about copyright laws so can't really comment... it was distracting tho!

    Dara, Jill- one of my fave recaps ever- that scene in the bedroom was pure genius, as was the final recap- Luna's face was priceless (it was Luna right?) 

    I can't wait to go to Dinah... one day!

    dante72's picture

    It ain't right!

    You guys can't just up and leave like this. You 3 were the first and have always been the best! This Vlog is my favorite thing about afterellen. Anyhow, this episode was too funny. Jill and Dara  deserve an award for the reenactment in the bed,great stuff ladies. We'll always love you 3 so don't stay away too long.  
    Stephx's picture

    I second that. Come back

    I second that. Come back soon ladies :) There HAS to be a reunion of some sort! You're too awesome to fade away, you must be one of AE's most popular vlogs!
    Shele's picture

    Cat or dog person?

    I love cats and have always been a cat person.  I've also always been allergic to cats, and the allergies have gotten worse the older I get.  So, I had to accept that I can't own cats, but I can still pet my neighbor's cat, then wash my hands.  Anyway, I love little dogs.  They are just like children except that you can train them to do tricks.  They are great company and will even warn you if a stranger comes around.  The only thing I don't like about dogs is how their owners allow them to bark continuously.  So, all you dog people, please tell them to stop barking already!
    Munchkin_licker's picture

    I know 2 trapeeze artists..

    I know 2 trapeeze artists.. :)

    Great one again ladies!

    Gina05's picture

    *sneaks in reluctantly and pipes up*

    ...Umm, I don't know "Closer to Fine."....

    Not even half-way through the vlog, but, just had to get that out there.

    debjordan's picture

    but wait there was more!

    You guys didn't mention one of my favorite moments, when Alice sees Dana coming back in the morning, shoves Jenny back down on the bed in prone position, and the FLYS through the air and lands on the other bed in a sleep position.  HILARIOUS. 
    jill-bennett-fan's picture

    shoving jenny

    everytime i see that part i laugh my ass off
    chicagoarchitect's picture

    Agree

    I agree, that is definately one of my favorite moments, I crack up every time I watch that scene.
    m17mwdxer's picture

    Fluffer!!

    Toxic Tonya - fluffer!

    I must admit, I also don't know the words to Closer to Fine. And I'm a tropical fish lesbian, you can tell from 100 feet away!

    Line of the week was from Dara: "Get in my car, bitch!"

    Karmen: I, too, was told by my mother when I was a kid that I walked like a linebacker. I think I'm a few years older than you, but our moms apparently were of a like mind. Also, it seems you love babies just as much as I do! LOL!!

    Will miss you guys so much! Why don't you hang around and 'do' season two??

     

    natza's picture

    MR PIDDLES!

    omg i adore mr piddles, and i can say i'm definately a cat person, dogs are ok i suppose but naaahh its all about the cats!

    oh my.... i just remembered what happens to mr p :( not good, evil evil tonya!!

    ellenrules's picture

    PLEASE GIVE US MORE....

    I think line of the week had to go to Jill as Bette "good and hard" lol and Karman talking about the glass shards was priceless!

    I feel like my parents are getting divorced all over again knowing WGN is coming to an end - please tell us, is it something we did? Please come back to us, you are the original and best-ever vloggers...

    -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------There is too much love in this world to have to deal with hate.

    RWL's picture

    Cats Vs Dogs

     It's not that I don't like cats, it's that I'm hideously allergic to them. My face goes all puffy and my eyes run... lol sounds attractive.  So I'm defo a dog lesbian. But I'm not anti-cat. Anithistamines, yes. 

    ~Can't everything be like before when it overcomes me?~

    drip's picture

    I am hideously allergic to

    I am hideously allergic to cats as well. Same deal as you... I get welts, and one of my eyes goes flat and leaks vitreous fluid for hours (so my cornea deflates) which means I can't see out of it, My nose would run so much and I would sneeze so much I often get blood noses too, there is also wheezing amongst other things but to fix the problem, I got a cat. Took a while but my body built up an immunity to my particular cat, which has also lessened the severity of my allergies around other puddy-tats..which is a blooming good thing cos i love cats.

     

    Consult your doctor before trying this at home kids.

     

    I couldnt care less's picture

    Hello, hello, hello

    That was from the terrible 3 Stooges

    http://www.imeem.com/gandalfthegreat/music/-t2PpWTW/sound_effects_three_stooges_hello_the_complete_hello/

     

    CanCerY_Imy's picture

    That was gr8

     

    Karmen, Jill & Dara u r just amazing ppl, the reenctments were hilarious. :D

    Also,I like when Jill take a peek at Dara's notes ;)

    U always make my day, now i can go sleep knowing wat i will dream of :D:D

    Katherine Key's picture

    I like the reenactment of

    I like the reenactment of 'business meeting'))) beautiful))

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    kristina.michelle's picture

    Another great episode

    I also have a lesbian walk. I think it's pretty funny but it is definitely true.

    Could they have made Anne's character a trapeze artist to somehow tie-in to Jenny's trauma at the circus/fair when she was a child?

    JeSsIcA25's picture

    I'm kind of late posting but

    I'm kind of late posting but oh well.. I love you guys I'm going to miss you more than words can say and when Jill said "Only two more left" I started to tear up again. I miss this vlog already..
    egret's picture

    I'm sad, and the best part

    I'm so sad you are leaving us!  First Malinda and Sarah P., now y'all...  Y'all five's and Sarah & Lori's shows are my favorites... At least we still have Bridget, at least for now! 

    Maybe you'll all get together to vlog some special event one-time shows or movies if the right ones come along periodically?

    Pushing that off into a future misery, the best part, absolutely the best part, of this week's re-enactment was Luna's resigned eyes blinking over Jill's shoulder!  Y'all abuse that cat.

    I have a dog and am definitely a dog person, but I'm not sure if I'm a "dog lesbian".  I also love cats, and I'm getting my first one this coming week.  What does that make me?

     

    drip's picture

    bipetual probably

    "I also love cats, and I'm getting my first one this coming week. What does that make me? "

     

    bipetual probably

    lashun's picture

    I am commenting now...

    I haven't watched the vlog yet but I know it is good and i wont be able to watch it till tuesday cause I am moving tomorrow and I can't figure out the browser thingy. I just wanted to say (tears forming) that I am really really upset that you lovely ladies will be done in two more episodes. (tears falling) I am not sure how I will manage. I was really excited for a recap of season 2 for the sexiest Carmen and count how many times Karmen would drool over her. That will not happen now.
    Ya'll truly made The L word way better than it really was. (Deep crying now with that funny breathing thing)

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