Lesbians on "Leno"There have been more than the usual number of out lesbians on NBC's The Tonight Show with Jay Leno in the last few weeks. And by "more than usual" I mean three (that's a 300% increase from zero, the average of most talk shows that aren't actually hosted by a lesbian). So I thought I'd bring you a round-up of their interviews, for your weekend enjoyment. Last night, Rachel Maddow was on The Tonight Show talking about politics and the presidential election, and looking very, very gay — and I mean that in a good way (watch her segment of the episode here).
Two weeks ago, Ellen DeGeneres was on, talking about gay marriage, the importance of voting against California's Prop. 8, and ... hitting Julia Louis Dreyfus with a rock. Here's a clip of that (watch the full episode here): Ellen DeGeneres on The Tonight Show with Jay Leno (9/30/08)
It's not every day you see someone tell Ellen to "Go f--k yourself!" But Jay's funniest conversation was with Wanda Sykes, in which she talks about Sarah Palin, and what should happen to people who don't vote. Wanda Sykes on The Tonight Show with Jay Leno (9/23/08)
Read Wanda's recent interview with the Dallas Voice for more entertaining answers from her. So now the question is — who will be Jay's next queer female guest? Submitted by on October 10, 2008 - 6:09pm. |
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<3 Maddow <3
I think Jay should pick Suze Orman next.
Go Wanda!
Rachel Maddow seemed incredibly intelligent (and looking v. cool and v. gay indeed)
Ellen was funny as always!
But Wanda Sykes was hilarious! I've never seen anything with her before (not from the U.S). Good to have people like her really speaking their minds! Sarah Palin is scary indeed. Can't begin to imagine what would happen to GLBT rights (and foreign policy!!) if she became VP..
Great Stuff!!!
Wanda Sykes is my hero. She just puts it all out there and tells it just the way it is. The woman is funny as all heck....she's one of the best comics around today.
Rachel Maddow was looking very professorial (loved the glasses) and witty, giving intelligent and insightful commentary about the Presidential race...she's wicked smart and very cool!!!!
Voting
Seriously, Americans get the emphasis so wrong with voting, everyone keeps going on and on, VOTE VOTE VOTE! Thats too simple, people should not be allow vote if they have NO IDEA about the issues. What the hell is the point if a bunch of ignorant idiots pick the cooler guy or the white guy?!? There should be some kind of basic test about the canditates policies which people have to pass before they can vote. Also, the whole anti non-voters thing bothers me, its your right as a free citizen not to vote if you dont want to, you bloody well dont have to, yes its not the brightest idea, but instead of the consequences of not voting, we get sanctimonious self-righteous celebrities shouting about how stupid we are in ridiculous PSAs (I exclude Wanda from that category btw!)
Actually, America is a weird country, its freakin huge and it comes down to a choice of basically two. Two people who when it comes right down to it aren't all that different. Democracy, alive and well in the worlds greatest super-power, how reassuring!
Oh, Hey, thanks for the compliment!
Oh, Hey, thanks for the compliment!
Word! I guess we stupid Americans don't have a clue do we??? Do we have problems, yes, but I don't we deserve that type of unfair criticism, and further I completely reject the notion that there is no difference between the candidates, and if you knew where they stood on the issues instead of calling the the "white guy" and the "cool guy" you wouldn't make such a remark....so who's the uninformed one now?
if you're going to criticize americans
you might want to know a little bit about their history. there was a time in this country when certain people did have to take a test in order to vote. but they were used primarily to disenfranchise people of color and other oppressed folk, so the practice was deemed unconstitutional.
it's true we have a lot of stupid people, but we also have a lot of really intelligent, thoughtful people as well, like, um, everywhere else in the world.
foxysox
So.... being the implied dumb, and weird American.... um.... I think I can point out at least one difference between the candidates (who you claim "aren't all that different"). ONE'S A REPUBLICAN AND ONE'S A DEMOCRAT!!
To me, well, that seems to be a MAJOR DIFFERENCE between the two candidates.
I was taught that if I didn't have anything nice to say then I shouldn't say it at all. With that thought in mind, I'm going to refrain from stooping to your level and completely bashing your country and the ideologies of your country's people.
Have a great day/night.
purrito >' '<
To be weird
The two candidates may be politicians but that does NOT make them the same. Do a little research and find out for yourself why your statement was so erroneous.
Second, America is a free country and every citizen should have the right to vote and that means even if there are people voting that have no idea what the issues are. The administration of test has been used in the past to discriminate against certain social groups. Discrimination of this sort is simply wrong and cannot be allowed.
Third, what is so weird about it coming down to two choices. They are presidential candidates who will control the executive branch of the US government. They are kept in check by the legislative branch, consisting of 535 members. And both branches are checked by the judicial branch. So yes the US is a "freakin huge" country but the US has an extensive government to make sure the Democracy is alive and well.
Huh?
Look, I'm no fan of the two-party system, but the rest was kinda ridiculous. The foundation of American democracy is that you don't have to be educated to vote, whether or not you know about the issues. The prevailing logic being that people will educate themselves to some degree because who runs the country has a direct effect on the voter.
As someone else mentioned, poll tests have been used to disenfranchise African-American voters. After seeing some of the gross abuses of power around voter registration, I really believe they would be used that way again--the Secretary of State for each State would make tests that give a bias one way or the other.
Also, there are some interesting studies that show that folks who are uneducated generally don't vote because there is a lot of rhetoric (with which you are unfamilar, I guess) telling people to be educated voters, which leads people who haven't completed enough school to feel like voting is something elitist. (The numbers for voters by income and race are staggering!) So, I think the rhetoric should be "vote, vote, vote!" It's really hard to live in this country and not get at least some of the differences between the two candidates; continue the war v. pull troops out, socialized health care v. a voucher, laissez-faire v. regulation...the list goes on. I'd rather everyone feel like voting is something they should be doing, rather than feeling left out.
And, sure, it is the right of any American not to vote. It's also the right of any celebrity to tell them they're reckless for not voting. Celebrities also do ad campaigns to encourage people not to use hate language (like the "that's so gay" campaign mentioned in BLWE) which is the right of any American to use. But, like hate language, just cause it's your right not to vote doesn't mean it's a good idea.
Finally, yes, American Democracy is alive and well. It's not perfect, Americans DO make stupid choices, but show me a country where it is perfect and there aren't ridiculous and stupid leaders. The important thing is, every 4 years we can choose whoever we want to lead our executive branch. And every 4 years there will be a peaceful exchange of power at the highest level. We get to try again. We get to continue to change. Democratic governments are a living thing--they change, they evolve, they improve, they get worse, they nearly crumble, they rebuild their foundation. As long as we keep trying, keep discusing and keep looking for new answers democracy will be fine. That goes for the US and all other democratic nations.
sorry sorry sorry!!!
What is a liberal conservative?
Obama is not against gay marriage. He against the semantic use of the word marriage for gay and lesbian unions, and there is a big difference. Here is a side by side comparison of Obama and McCain on LGBT issues.
http://obama.3cdn.net/9bbadf2e4222f1de03_5humvyu4s.pdf
http://www.barackobama.com/index.php
Biden on civil rights:
http://biden.senate.gov/issues/issue/?id=be6206f3-0b69-4553-9ce4-45eb1c82c62d
McCain has no equivalent on his website.
http://www.johnmccain.com/Informing/Issues/
Palin according to the McCain campaign:
http://www.johnmccain.com/about/governorpalin.htm
The LGBT community will do better under an Obama adminstration than under a McCain administration. That is not wishful thinking. That is about the behavior and rhetoric of both senators.
Not to pile on, but
I suspect that the reason you see so many celebrities, and just plain old regular people, chastising American citizens for not voting is because of what it cost to get us to this place. The cost was blood, and far too often, people's lives. People fought and died so that I could excercise the right to freely participate in our democracy. I would not dare take that for granted. So, yeah, it matters.. yeah, I admit that I am openly disdainful of people who declare that they don't vote or aren't planning to vote. Don't even get me started on people who still claim to be undecided at this point in the campaign, 'cause that's a whole other aneurysm.
Celebrities are citizens
They don't abdicate their citizenship when they become famous, so they have just as much of a right under the Constitution to speak out on issues that are important to them as anyone else. You don't have to agree with a particular issue. Some of them are well informed and some are not, just like the rest of the population.
As to the testing of voters it just doesn't work. For one thing some politicians will change their stances on issues over time and during a campaign, so whatever test you might want to give would have to take that into account. Before the Civil Rights movement some groups of people were singled out for tests, but the test questions were quite bizarre and completely at the discretion of the tester. How many jellybeans are in a jar of several hundred? Could you answer just by looking at the jar? Who was the fourth govenor of Colorado? What's the third largest city in Missouri? Sound crazy? That kind of thing went on for real. Other forms of intimidation consisted of beatings and murder. Have you ever heard of Goodman, Chaney and Schwerner?
http://www.infoplease.com/spot/bhmjustice4.html
How about Fannie Lou Hamer?
http://www.answers.com/topic/fannie-lou-hamer
The few I mentioned are just a couple of the more famous ones. Thousands of people put their lives on the line for our right to vote. It was hard fought because it is power.
one thing you may not know about american history
is that there HAVE been tests at the polls before, and they were used to disenfranchise blacks, women, the poor, and anyone else who was denied a basic education. in other words, keeping the vote for the rich, white and educated so that those who labored to keep them rich wouldn't have a say in things.
now i am just as frustrated with people who do not educate themselves in a time where information is at its most accessible, but i also know the truth about how that information is disseminated. the mainstream media (television and newspapers) is owned by the corporations whose vested interests are in keeping people ignorant. the internet is still only accessible to those with enough money to buy a computer and afford the monthly fee. and the education in this country is still miles above for those areas with money, and dreadful for those urban and rural areas without.
it's a big problem, and certainly ignorance in a time of choosing our "leaders" is frustrating, but testing people has always been a tool of disenfranchisement used by those in power to keep those without, continually without.
I live in a country where
I live in a country where voting is compulsory... which forces most people to at least learn a little bit (or be bribed by the government) about policies and stuff because they HAVE to make a choice... of course you still get the idiots who a) think the whole process is a waste of time b) the choices are bad anyway c) go with the devil you know... the only test you have to pass is to be a citizen... I think it works for us (mostly) because even the idiots get a say, but the most people allow themselves to understand a little bit about policies... and democracy is about everyone having a say (even the intellectucally challenged inbred bogans).
I can understand what you're trying to say (I think)... that it's sort of annoying (well it would be to me if I lived in the U.S anyway) that everyone is just telling people to vote without actually instructing them on the consequences of that vote. Like it or not, some people are easily persuadable (I am apparently highly persuadable when I have been drinking and there are naked women in front of me I have just discovered).
What scares me the most (and unfortunately the U.S gov't has a lot of sway in the global western world) is that the election could very well come down to the racist vote. That a bunch of white hillbilly hicks will vote for McCain simply because he is white. Not because he has good policy, not because he has great visions for the future and not because Obama's policies are terrible... but simply because of the difference in skin tone. I would like to think that the majority of Americans are not racist and would not allow that to affect their visions for a brighter U.S but we all know there is a pocket of racist people who will probably come out and vote, who wouldn't ordinarily vote, because the thought of a black guy winning is too nauseating for them.
Which is sad. To me.
I watch every U.S election coverage item on our news (which believe it or not is actually alot more often than the state election we are about to have this weekend!!!!! Apparently U.S politics is more important than local government, but I digress) and I find the U.S system of democracy puzzling - they spend so long campaigning, and spending money just to convince their own parties to put them forward for the country to select them... during which time the potential candidates rubbish each other. Then when one has been selected, everyone is supposed to forget about all the rubbishing that has gone on - all the dirt that has been put out for all to see, and support the winning candidate. It almost seems like a diservice to the party to have these... pre-election elections!
It may be because I'm not used to the U.S system, but it seems so long winded. Doesn't anyone in the U.S get sick and tired of hearing about elections? I am sick of all elections right now, both the U.S one and the local one... I'll be glad when you guys make your choice - evern if it's the "wrong" one (whichever one is wrong).
It does seem like an awful lot of power to hand to just one person though...
Sorry for the length.
Wanda Sykes?
I wondered the same thing
Wanda
It's a fair question, but I believe Wanda falls under the "out in actions, not in words" category I described in the Visibility Matters column I wrote last month about the new definition of "out". She's out in her personal life, talks about her girlfriend in her stand-up act, speaks out about gay rights, and told the Dallas Voice in the article I linked to in the post above that she doesn't care if anyone calls her an "out and proud" lesbian. So I am. :)
Awesome
I have so much love for Wanda Sykes. Somehow I skipped over you references her in that article. Like I needed another reason to love her.
"Look, I'm a feminist, but that woman is crazy!"
Good to know!
Wanda Skyes interview
I do not know if Wanda Sykes is same gender loving or not. I have done a little research as well; to me, she does not mention if she is or is not. So I will wait until Wanda Sykes states it herself. (I have not seen or heard her stand up shows, I will look at some, hopefully on youtube)
Anyways here is a recent Wanda Sykes interview I have found:
http://www.pegasusnews.com/news/2008/sep/26/dallas-voice-interviews-come...
Wanda Sykes is like Clay
Wanda Sykes is like Clay Aiken,Ellen, and Lance Bass. All the signs are there and its obvious to everyone their rainbow troopers, somehow its like they ain't officially gay if they're not in front of people magazine or something with a big imprint of Yep, I'm gay.
-<_>_<_>_<_>_<_>_<_>
"The first duty of a man is to think for himself"
Jose Marti
Wanda
Dear Sarah,
I appreciate After Ellen and all that your site has done for LGBT visibility, but I humbly disagree with how Wanda's sexuality is being handled here. I personally have never heard Wanda speak about having a girlfriend in her stand up routines. I don't believe she fits the "new definition of being out" because to the best of my knowledge she has never been photographed kissing, holding hands or seen out on the town with any woman. IMO the Dallas Voice article does not confirm Wanda is out. It shows she supports the gay community, but continues to dance around using the word lesbian to describe herself. She may not have a problem being called a lesbian for the simple reason that she doesn't want to come across as demonizing gay people in any fashion. If indeed Wanda is dancing around the issue of coming out it should be viewed in the context of her race. To date there are no well known Africa-American celebrities who have come out of the closet. As I stated above, I don't believe Wanda falls into the "new definition of being out", rather she falls under the same fear of being an out African-American. Including Wanda with Rachel and Ellen as an out lesbian when she has never acknowledge her sexual orientation, just struck me as insensitive in light of the issues that surround the African-American community. This "new definition" accurately reflects a new way in which some celebrities can be defined, but one size doesn't fit all. Your painting with a broad brush here in regards to Wanda. Out of respect for Wanda and acknowledgment of the complexity of being out for women of different backgrounds, I humbly request you think about changing the article. If I'm wrong about Wanda acknowledging her relationship with a woman in any fashion I will re-draw my request. :)
Peace out,
BB
Double-standard?
I agree about being sensitive to how issues of race factor into coming out, but you're saying AfterEllen should apply a different standard to black women than to white women. That it's OK to apply the "new definition of out" to white women, but black women have to actually say the words. I think that's giving homophobia within the black community more power than it deserves, and reinforcing the invisibility of black lesbians. I don't think it's our job to try to "protect" Wanda from being referred to as a lesbian if she's clearly not asking for that protection. That seems like its own form of well-intentioned internalized homophobia.
(I'm not talking about outing people - I agree with you about that being a bad thing to do, for women of any race - I'm talking about women like Wanda who are out, behavior-wise, even if they don't say the words.)
Aside from not bringing a date to public events, Wanda's not much different than Lindsay Lohan in terms of being out - she talks publicly about gay rights, she talks publicly about her girlfriend (I've seen her perform live, and she talks about her girlfriend in a way that makes it clear she's not just a friend), and although she wont' confirm she's a lesbian, she doesn't deny it, either, and even says that she doesn't care if you call her a lesbian.
And I don't think by including her in this roundup post that Sarah was implying that Wanda, Ellen and Rachel were all out in the same way, or that "one size fits all." I think that's reading into it something that isn't there.
I think the bottom line is that you just disagree with Sarah and others who believe Wanda falls in the "new definition of out" category, and while I think you're being overly conservative in your assesment, I do think it's a fair question for you to raise. As Sarah wrote in that article, this "new definition" does require more subjective judgment calls than the old way of defining someone as out (which was much more black-and-white, if you'll pardon the pun), and good, well-intentioned people can legitimately disagree on what constitutes out behavior.
hmm..
i was also thrown off by reading about wanda sykes being described as a lesbian. i know she's been talked about on afterellen as gay-friendly, but i hadn't considered the fact that she was actually gay and/or out, however you would describe that.
i did read the dallas voice article, and if i'm going only off of that, i don't see anything that would make me think that she was anything more than gay-friendly. personally, until i see more...evidence, for lack of a better word, i'm going to just consider her gay-friendly. i'm not saying she can't be gay, i'm just saying that as of now i see nothing to conclusively or even semi-conclusively indicate one way or another.
Definition of "Girlfriend" ?
As much as I really want Wanda to be gay, there's still some ambiguousness to that term. When men say "boyfriend", it becomes absolutely clear that they are gay. But when women say it, it could mean that they are just friends. Straight women have been using that term forever and my straight friend refers to me as her girlfriend-although there's nothing romantic happening.
But let's hope it's actually true in the case of Wanda !
I watched several of Wanda
Funny
I think it is really funny how some of you guys refuse to believe she's gay.
Don't you think Sarah Warn knows a little more about these things?
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-Everyone is entitled to be stupid, but some abuse the privilege.
I blog, therefore, I am
i had an OMG moment
I saw the front page and thought, "holy sh*t, afterellen just outed wanda sykes."
I am editing my commentary. Don't feel comfortable with what I disclosed.
I was at a pool hall with my
omg Wanda
Her face when Leno brought up Palin was priceless. Wanda is amazing!!! I love that she just says what she wants to. Best line, "Jay, I'm a feminist, but I'm sorry, that woman's (Palin) crazy." Thank you Wanda for pointing that out.
Cosmiccowgirl - I was wondering the same exact thing. I went online and tried to find it out but no one knows. I really want to know!
So Adorkable
Rachel Maddow was so adorkable last night--I was so surprised to see that she was sporting her glasses last night, as opposed to the stuff she wears for her show on MSNBC. Sooo cute! I only wish Leno hadn't spent so much of the show with Marky Mark.
Loved Wanda Sykes taking on all things political. She's hilarious.
That said, I'm still not a fan of Leno's--he seems to only do well interviewing other comedians. How he manages better ratings than Letterman is beyond me. Whatever the case, the appearance of three lesbians on his show isn't enough for me to forgive Leno for some of the stupid sh*t he's said.
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"Injustice anywhere is a threat to justice everywhere. We are caught in an inescapable network of mutuality, tied in a single garment of destiny. Whatever affects one directly, affects all indirectly." - MLK
Out?
I always sorta had a
I always sorta had a suspicion... she often refers to her divorce but I thought she mentioned her girlfriend(s) in her stand up routine, as her "girl friends" as in friends who happen to be girls!
Anywho, love the woman, she's waaaaaaay too funnay! crank yankers, curb your entusiasm, she's brilliant!
gotta root for her!
your family, your family, your family! - French and Saunders -
missy higgins
missy was also recently on leno...he didn't interview her but still... :D
I think Jay's next queer
I think Jay's next queer female guest should be Sarah Warn! Go After Ellen! Haha, seriously, though, this year has been one of so much change for our community, and I am so happy to see primetime talk shows jumping on the bandwagon, especially ones hosted by men.
"It might make Elizabeth Hasselbeck cry, but we're gonna do it." - Tina Fey
and wanda sykes is my
really?!
I still can't quite believe that Rachel Maddow has been given her own show in mainstream media, and is apparently being encouraged to just continue doing what she was doing on liberal San Francisco radio; that is, being her(intelligent, amazing, gay, gay)self. I think that before Ellen proved that a woman who refuses to wear skirts can appeal to the "common American," this wouldn't have been possible. It really gives me hope that America may be getting more open-minded afterall.
Anyway, if you haven't heard Maddow's show, I highly recommend getting the podcast for free on itunes!
(And Wanda Sykes is wonderful and hilarious)
thanks for the podcast tip
I'm UK based and so the link was unavailable for the Rachel Maddow clip (US only, apparently) but enjoyed Ellen and Wanda.
From what has been shown on AE, Rachel's show is something I'd like to tune into so thanks for this tip for her radio show.
Rachel Maddow
Rachel Maddow looks so much cooler than in her anchor-outfit :)
Amazing. Simply amazing.
Amazing. Simply amazing.
Ellen
Ellen is that what u call "hit on her"?
great as usual!
what you can't have
you can't resist
Rachel Maddow looks unbelievable!
and the adorkable awkward way she walked across the set? That's all I have to say, really. I'm that shallow.
Please, Rachel, wear your glasses more often.
I agree
Rachel Maddow
I've said it before and i'll say it again -- i love Rachel Maddow. Not in an i-want-to-marry-her way, but in an i-want-to spend-a-saturday-night-drinking-beer-and-talking-politics-over-our-matching-buddy-holly-glasses way. she is totally the smartest person to host a US news show in forever. i think she may actually be the messiah. hey rachel, come save us from ourselves!
Be alert. The world needs more lerts.
Ralph Nader
I dont kno how many or if any of you kno but Ralph Nader is for same-sex marriage. You can read it from his site here:
http://www.votenader.org/issues/social/civil-liberties/#39095
rachel maddow, i now get it
Previously, I had no idea what all that fuss surrounding her was about, now i get it. Its the first time I've watched Rachel and even in such a casual setting she comes across as being incredibly intelligent. She's passionate about politics without being forceful. Nice.
Picture of 'light is like water' author
Canada
PROGRESS
I vote for Sarah Warn or any/all of the other contributors/vloggers of AE to be guests on Jay Leno.
I'm glad that these three women got the opportunity to represent the queer community. They all did a great job. Wanda had me cracking me up, Rachel was just adorable and Ellen is my heroine :-)