by Sarah Warn

Columns

Currently Recapping

Popular People

TV Shows

Movies

Featured

Members from England, UK

	Kerry
	Hoops
	maryan...
	London...
	Kitten.

3Way Confessional #10 "Chronicles of Dykia"

Sarah Warn

In 3Way's latest confessional, Andrea reclaims "dyke," Roxie tries to make "sporty" happen, and all four roommates discuss gold star lesbians and how they lost their virginity.

3Way Confessional 10 "Chronicles of Dykia"

Download from Veoh

Check out 3Waytv.tv for more video, photos, wallpaper, etc.

Sarah Warn's blog

Submitted by

Sarah Warn

on April 3, 2008 - 11:30am.

TAGS ::

I don't have a problem with

Submitted by

CaroL (121 posts)

on April 3, 2008 - 12:11pm.

I don't have a problem with the word lesbian... It sounds a lot better than the portuguese version "lésbica".. so... its fine! I don't have a problem with the word dyke either...

I did not understood what this "gold star" thing means (non-american ignorance)... can someone please explain it to me??

"Thats damn right I'm a dyke... Can I lick yo pusssay?!" LMAO

... ... ... ... ... ... ... ... ... ... ... ... ...
www.myspace.com/carolconti

Totally agree

Submitted by

milena87 (58 posts)

on April 3, 2008 - 12:11pm.

I like the word lesbian much more than lesbica.

With "gold-star" I think it means a girl who never slept with a man

really?

Submitted by

CaroL (121 posts)

on April 3, 2008 - 12:13pm.

well then I'm a gold star!!

... ... ... ... ... ... ... ... ... ... ... ... ...
www.myspace.com/carolconti

Brazilian slang...

Submitted by

Wickedlitllegirl (36 posts)

on April 5, 2008 - 4:37pm.

I like the words:

bisexual (sounds like you are twice more sexual then the rest of mortals)
gillette the Brazilian slang for bisexual. Sort of fun.
I adore LIPSTICK LESBIANS! and I also adore the word. HAHAHA!

damn right im a dyke

Submitted by

melissa (180 posts)

on April 3, 2008 - 12:14pm.

oh my god that was to funny

damn right im a dyke can i lick yo p*ssy hahahahha

gold stars are awesome

this show just gets better everytime

I <3 Jill

Submitted by

azngirl714 (45 posts)

on April 3, 2008 - 12:36pm.

LOLL. "A dyke will PUNCH you in the face...and then buy you a beer."

I don't know...but I get offended when guys call me a dyke...I think it's as bad as being called the F word for gay men.

Dyke

Submitted by

egret (46 posts)

on April 3, 2008 - 11:12pm.

It's one of those words that's only acceptable if a member of the group uses it - it's offensive if some random dude calls you that, but if someone refers to themselves with it, it's okay. Like chick - it's much milder, but I don't like it if some guy calls me "a chick", but I don't care if a woman does.

I like it better than lesbian, for the record, and I think gay lady sounds stupid and gayelle ridiculous.

3 Way

Submitted by

LoveLillianGish (178 posts)

on April 5, 2008 - 4:32pm.

I agree with you that it seems rude/offensive if someone called anyone a dyke but I think its a double standard (that doesn't make any sense to me) when a gay woman calls another gay woman a dyke. Granted its a personal preference and in that respect I'm uptight because I prefer gay. But as a side note: 3 Way is amazing and wonderfully humorous. I'm shocked alone that I can watch something there I like the ENTIRE cast. Everyone is talented and interesting. I LOVE Cathy Shim saying "Oh poor Jill Bennett's reputation." And Jill Bennett's character is ridiculously funny. I would love to see Maeve Quinlin's character be gay (loved Jill and her making out because Maeve has commented that she has a girl crush on Jill which is cute) Great show, great actresses, great/honest writing.

I like the word lesbian and

Submitted by

Aline......... (24 posts)

on April 5, 2008 - 6:13pm.

I like the word lesbian and i dont have a problem with the word dyke..but i agree, dyke is one word that's only acceptable if a member of the group uses it...

Oh yeah!

Submitted by

Connie (153 posts)

on April 3, 2008 - 12:19pm.

Dyke dyke dyke dyke dyke! haha

"So put me on a plane, and fly me to anywhere...with you"-Augustana

I'm off to watch it!

Submitted by

Xisca (21 posts)

on April 3, 2008 - 12:19pm.

Finally something good! My day has been horrible so far... and it's 7.14pm already!

lmao

Submitted by

Kindly_Unspoken (118 posts)

on April 3, 2008 - 12:27pm.

Andrea praising dyke was the best part of this episode

I watched this like 5 times already because i thought it was hysterical...i still laugh when i hear...."Can I lick your p*ssy?"

<3 3way

unfair

Submitted by

BetweenThaLines (343 posts)

on April 3, 2008 - 12:30pm.

Although I don't hate the word lesbian, I think it's unfair that we are often called that in stead of gay. I love the word gay! Why can't we gay people just all be gay?LOL But everything is better than the Dutch word 'Lesbisch'. I hate that word... It sounds like a disease...

http://www.youtube.com/BetweenThaLines

Lesbisch is horrible indeed

Submitted by

Kimpie (8 posts)

on April 3, 2008 - 1:03pm.

I think you're right, I really hate the Dutch version too! But I don't have a problem with the word lesbian... although gay sounds much better.

hehe

Submitted by

WMC_LC (9 posts)

on April 3, 2008 - 1:46pm.

the german word is also "lesbisch"

__________________________________________

"If you think back and replay your year, if it doesn't bring you tears, either of joy or sadness, consider the year wasted."

is there...

Submitted by

Forza Roma (322 posts)

on April 3, 2008 - 2:57pm.

a German equivalent to "dyke"?

----

Tibet in Crisis - Stay Aware

pff

Submitted by

WMC_LC (9 posts)

on April 4, 2008 - 11:11am.

if you type "dyke" you get the translation "Lesbe". if you type "Lesbe" you get the translation "dyke, lesbian". and then there is the word "Kampflesbe" - "bull dyke". So I would say lesbian and dyke have the same meaning here. But lesbian is the only word to use here. Can't use gay cause it stands for "schwul" and that word is only for the guys.

Did that make any sense??? *g*

__________________________________________

"If you think back and replay your year, if it doesn't bring you tears, either of joy or sadness, consider the year wasted."

darn

Submitted by

Forza Roma (322 posts)

on April 13, 2008 - 5:37pm.

I like dyke, too bad it doesn't translate!

Thanks for the info. :D

----

Tibet in Crisis - Stay Aware

Ha, the Danish word for

Submitted by

CG (13 posts)

on April 4, 2008 - 5:52am.

Ha, the Danish word for lesbian is lesbisk.

The word for dyke is lebbe!

When I was younger I hated the word 'lesbisk'. Now I think it's okay, but I prefer 'lebbe' actually!

I'm sooo in love with Jill Bennett!

3Way is the best show ever!

ok...

Submitted by

Gelphie (56 posts)

on April 3, 2008 - 12:36pm.

ok...where can i get one of those cards!? i WANT one! lol

"If you should see her...tell her I miss her still." -- Galinda. 'Wicked'

It's a costco membership

Submitted by

azngirl714 (45 posts)

on April 3, 2008 - 12:42pm.

I have one ;)

lmao!!

Submitted by

Gelphie (56 posts)

on April 3, 2008 - 12:55pm.

awesome!! it so sucks that i'm British :( we don't have costco over here so i can't even try and get one....damnit...

"If you should see her...tell her I miss her still." -- Galinda. 'Wicked'

aw

Submitted by

a_beautiful_lie (93 posts)

on April 3, 2008 - 3:32pm.

I live in the north-east of england + we have a costco (:

its like the best place to go :D lol

Yeah, I go to that one all

Submitted by

!Trashhh. (24 posts)

on April 4, 2008 - 10:10am.

Yeah, I go to that one all the time to buy Oreos in bulk XD It's great.

-------------------------------
Torchwood ftw.

Jill Bennett Fan Club Forum JOIN NOW OMG!

Oreos!

Submitted by

a_beautiful_lie (93 posts)

on May 29, 2008 - 8:31am.

Love them like!

Costcos the best! :D

“Yes I am a dyke! Can I

Submitted by

JasmeenKru (286 posts)

on April 3, 2008 - 12:44pm.

“Yes I am a dyke! Can I lick your pussy?” Jill Bennett

HA HA HA, that was so random.

Didn't Jill look spectacular in the black shirt? Yum. Geri & Roxie bring it as usual too. This series seems to get better week after week.

you know...

Submitted by

Gelphie (56 posts)

on April 3, 2008 - 12:42pm.

i really don't mind the word Lesbian. Actually i like it. If it was just a word someone randomly thought of and assigned to mean women who are attracted to other women. But that would be weird. It originates from the island of Lesbos in Greece so it isn't just a random word. It's relevant to a historical trend. The women from the island of Lesbos were known to sleep with other women. So then they're called Lesbians....i like it. It's just become a bit of an over-exposed term. Mainly when you think of straight men always on about it and it's being used to describe things that are so gratuitous....that pisses me off...but the word in itself is cool

"If you should see her...tell her I miss her still." -- Galinda. 'Wicked'

The sign behind Jill

Submitted by

Batman (417 posts)

on April 3, 2008 - 12:57pm.

-Ender-

No liquor served to Indians after sundown...lmao.

As long as...

Submitted by

Crank Heart (144 posts)

on April 3, 2008 - 1:21pm.

Gayelle doesn't catch on, I'll be fine.

---------------
3waytv.tv Go now, go often.

Love me some "Dyke"

Submitted by

Kaz (52 posts)

on April 3, 2008 - 1:39pm.

The only instances when I refer to myself as a "lesbian" is when I am talking to my parents (so as to not offend their Victorian sensibilities...any further, that is.) Even when I came out to my younger brother I told him that if he were ever to refer to my sexuality he would have to use the word "dyke." Granted, giving a 16 year old boy free reign to use the word "dyke" probably wasn't the best idea but I gotta do what I gotta do.

Es mejor pedir perdon que permiso.

oh my god! i really dont

Submitted by

dec23rd1986 (254 posts)

on April 3, 2008 - 1:43pm.

oh my god! i really dont like being called a lesbian either. lol.....i dont know why...

i like gay. so yup, i refer to myself as gay.

Jill Bennett = all kinds of awesome

Submitted by

Alien_Queen (15 posts)

on April 3, 2008 - 2:03pm.

Ah, but does anyone identify as a "gay lady"? :o)

I don't really like the

Submitted by

chocolatebars (104 posts)

on April 3, 2008 - 2:24pm.

I don't really like the word lesbian either! I think it make us sound like some sort of species of type of animals like the word amphibian. Well, it does rhyme you know..lesbian,amphibian.

Dyke and gay, all the way! :)

Jill=FUNNY

Submitted by

AnnaRG (152 posts)

on April 3, 2008 - 2:28pm.

hahah this confessional cracked me up. I wanna know if this is improv or did someone actually write this script? hahah the way Jill said some of those lines were just perfect. I couldn't stop laughing.

loved this confessional

Submitted by

brightClik5 (101 posts)

on April 3, 2008 - 2:46pm.

favorite line by far: a dyke will punch you in the face...and then buy you a beer. Jill was spot on for Confessional. all around amusing.

3Way Rocks!

Submitted by

Kirsti (189 posts)

on April 3, 2008 - 3:12pm.

I love 3Way <3

Gay sounds great...

Submitted by

Babyjune (57 posts)

on April 3, 2008 - 3:28pm.

thought lesbian is fine as well. I'm brazilian and I hate the words we have for it.

. lesbian = "lésbica" (but I usually say "lés" which sounds ok to me).

. dyke = "sapatão" (big shoe! ewww, *hate* this one. Sometimes my gay male friends say "sapinha", short for "sapatão", and it also means little frog, hahaha) or "fancha" (usually this one just makes me laugh).

Gay, lesbian, dyke, sapa...

Submitted by

Pri Lopes (6 posts)

on April 3, 2008 - 3:51pm.

They're all ok... Got my favorites though: dyke,in English, and sapa (short for sapatão, babyjune mentioned), in Brazilian Portuguese. Also, lez, for whatever language...

The reason why I don't really mind the words can be expressed by this quote:

"Ninguém conseguirá me ofender me chamando por nomes que significam apenas o meu amor por outra mulher" (in English, it would be something like: "No one will ever offend me by calling me names that only mean my love for another woman") - by out Brazilian writer Vange Lonel

oh... 3Way rocks! :D

yup:) gay lady

Submitted by

mag (9 posts)

on April 3, 2008 - 4:04pm.

"thats damn right I'm a dyke !....can I lick yo pussy ?!"

JILL BENNETT = RULES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

lov' 3way!!!!!

Love JILL...

Submitted by

devil_lush (30 posts)

on April 3, 2008 - 4:09pm.

OMG this one was the best one so far... i love Jill and Maeve ...
It cracked me up when Maile was commenting on her marriage, but.. uhm.. i can assure you that not all marriages are like that - to a man, might be - to a woman, not at all!!! :p
Another scene that cracked me up was when Cathy was making the link between gold stars and nuns.. wtf?? lol very funny

For the record: I like the word dyke way more than lesbian and i dont find it offensive at all.. maybe that's because i'm brazilian and the word "lésbica" is awful.. as mentioned by other members before

"Love is just a word until someone comes along and gives it meaning"

Dyke!

Submitted by

Ladyhawk1709 (105 posts)

on April 3, 2008 - 4:09pm.

Love that word... No clue why... But I do! Oh and I was sitting here going dyke dyke dyke to my computer, and I think my mum thought I was having some sort of a breakdown (I had headphones on)...

Did nobody else notice the

Submitted by

regularjo (56 posts)

on April 3, 2008 - 4:32pm.

Did nobody else notice the sign behind Andrea's head? I laughed. In a guilty kind of way.

yup

Submitted by

Ladyhawk1709 (105 posts)

on April 3, 2008 - 5:18pm.

I noticed it in the first barscene they ever did... I laughed out loud, and then felt all guilty...

Betty Rubble

Submitted by

Samsara Interrupted (26 posts)

on April 3, 2008 - 4:39pm.

"It was hot. All except for that bone."

Such genius writing!

My life is sad and meaningless without 3Way.

I Love Jill too

Submitted by

Shug (40 posts)

on April 3, 2008 - 4:44pm.

Jill is a funny funny chic, I just adore her.

I bloody hate the words dyke and lesbian they sound harsh, i think all gay people girls and boys should just be called gay...coz it is a happy thang

JUST SHUG.

my credentials...lol

Submitted by

brainfreeze28 (44 posts)

on April 3, 2008 - 4:45pm.

that was the most hilarious thing i've seen this week! i actually snorted when jill said "can i lick yo pussy??" GENIUS!!

reclaiming dyke!! hell yes, i love that word. it just feels good in your mouth you know what i mean? (plus, vagina monologues reference any body??lol)

jill bennett, i'm a little bit in love with you for this!!

Did anybody noticed

Submitted by

Lunakiss (1772 posts)

on April 3, 2008 - 4:52pm.

Jill wearing the wrist-cuff to match her shirt? How wrist-cuffy of her? (Overdone ,yeah). Mmm Dyke....I was called that in HS after I came out so I'm not so sure about that one. Gay does sound short,sweet and to the punch. If you tell people you're Lesbian, their r no lightbulbs that go off in their heads; they r not use to that word. I'm a Fem(since it's used by LGBTQI comm). Plus it's like a secret code that only a LGBTQI person would know. Mysteriousness is sexy. I like Cathy's character describing sex with a man the first time. So true. My favorite line was from Geri about marriage.

lmao

Submitted by

kandice (68 posts)

on April 3, 2008 - 4:52pm.

lol that was the finnuest thing, i lost my virgintiy to betty rubbel. im a 15 year old memeber haha, an i ilke yo pussy

That was hysterical!!

Submitted by

seeing_leaves (45 posts)

on April 3, 2008 - 5:10pm.

That was hysterical!! TOTALLY WRISTCUFFY (literally since ~~Jillie~~ Andrea was actually wearing one!) I swear every time I think it can't get any better you bring out the gold star card!!

At first I hated the word lesbian but it sort of grew on me! But I have to agree with Andrea, dyke is so much better! But my (straight) friends hate the word dyke...I guess that's why they're not!

"Damn right I'm a dyke! Can I lick yo pussy?" = Best. Line. Ever.

You can be sure I'll remember that line at the most inopportune moment (class or even worse church!) and start laughing hysterically!

Thanks for making my day, ladies of 3Way!

The Ten Rules

Submitted by

Mara (1065 posts)

on April 3, 2008 - 5:16pm.

The way Andrea reclaimed "dyke" reminded me of Michelle Paradise's short "The ten rules" where Michelle basically does the same thing in one of the outtakes :)

_ _ _ _ _

"Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter, and those who matter don't mind." (Dr. Seuss)

User login

Recent blog posts

New forum topics

New Comments

Good for you honey! Well
11 sec ago
aah i love that girl
2 min 57 sec ago
Show Me The Way Back To Your Heart
4 min 44 sec ago
good to know
5 min 42 sec ago
Just Done In!
7 min 16 sec ago
word
8 min 27 sec ago
Personally
10 min 15 sec ago

by Sarah Warn

Navigation

Featured

3Way Confessional #10 "Chronicles of Dykia"

User login

Recent blog posts

New forum topics

Active Topics

New Comments