After last week's introduction to dating, Sarah Pecora and I are ready to tackle a subject that can make anybody nervous: How to get that first date.
Again, we relied on our crack team of dating researchers hard-won real-life experience to formulate our advice. As always, please share your own advice in the comments! I'm sure we're not the last word on this subject.
We hope you enjoy it!
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on September 2, 2009 - 4:00pm.
Great episode
Being Nice
Being nice and open does attract people for sure. I hate it when my guy friends' logic to attract women is to be dick. They have it all wrong.
in choosing myself i choose man(kind)
What's crazy
about the being a dick theory is I have seen it work several times, it truly is an art form.
"Come On Then Get These Good Done Debbies"
Great Dating Advice
I will keep that in mind. I also will add be cool about flirting. Be classy when going out.
I'm glad your family is doing fine,Sarah.
Congrats on your book Malinda! =)
Thanks for the advice
love the vlog, glad to have yall back.
"Come On Then Get These Good Done Debbies"
Very Helpful
Hehe
What can I say? This was..nice..
:)
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Thank You
I love your series, I was waiting all week for it. Its helpful what you ladies are doing, because I am having trouble getting that "real" first date *sigh* or a date at all *sigh again* I'll try to follow your steps.
Oh...Congrats for your new book Melinda, can't wait to read it.
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"Vivono nella speranza"
love the 7-step program
Love the series, hope you guys manage to get over the 7 episodes limit. AE wouldnt be the same if new vlogs by you guys werent featured.
I'm so glad my dating days are over, and I landed a beautiful and amazing woman. *knocks wood*. Girls where I come from had this insufferable habit of replacing sarcasm for a personality. not the good kind of sarcasm too. God I just wanted to tell them to bugger off somewhere and build a character. Most girls were such BITCHES!
*sighs* well, I just relived some horrible dating memories...so..yeah...its off my chest now.
I think kindness does really go a long way, if you dont develop relationships or interests, you can develop good friendships. people should learn how to be kind and respectable to each other nowadays, its a lost art!
love it
Femme flirting is very different. and is sarah asked most def give her my phone number lol =)
Namaste
I'll be nice and say.....
excellent advice
Sarah Pecora
Sarah Pecora
amazing
tweeds medear
oh but how to pull the fellow dog walker who's clearly out of your league i.e high brow and financially,
i suppose i could lay the cards down and tell her I'd be her bit of rough..... I've only ever pulled when drunk, eak that's not good, so it's a totally new situation for me.
Great vlog, the only depressed people in bars here are old yarkshire chaps propping up the bar. Champion.
How long have you been in
How long have you been in this field? You seem to know a lot more than I do, I’d love to know your sources!
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