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Step away from that remote!Yesterday marked the first day of this year's TV Turnoff Week, which runs April 21-27. If you weren't aware of this, well, I didn't know either until Monday night, and by then I'd already made plans to watch Gossip Girl and my DVR-ed recording of last week's Battlestar Galactica. But I think that Tuesday, April 22, is a much better day to start TV Turnoff Week, because tonight is the premiere of a huge turn-off: A Shot at Love 2.
So instead of tuning in to whatever disasters await Tila Tequila during her second quest for "true love," here are a few suggestions for what you can do instead. 1. Go out to dinner with your girlfriend(s) and have some lively conversation. There are so many lesbian chefs these days that you can surely find a restaurant headed by one of them. If you're in Miami Beach, stop by Tantra to taste the cuisine of executive chef Sandee Birdsong. If you're in San Francisco, how about Elizabeth Falkner's newest restaurant, Orson? She was a guest judge on Top Chef last season and has been a contestant on Iron Chef, and she rocks some platinum blond hair.
If you're in Chicago, stop by Avec, where head chef (and recent Top Chef guest judge) Koren Grieveson presides. No, Grieveson hasn't come out to us officially, but as Dorothy Snarker noted in her recap, she's sports all the requisite lesbian paraphernalia; her Food & Wine profile notes that she was a soldier in the U.S. Army for nine years; and in this Time Out Chicago article she says that her place of inspiration is "My girl Frog's studio. ... We bounce ideas off each other, but really, just working next to her keeps me inspired." Hey, Koren: How about an interview with AfterEllen.com? 2. If you're in Austin, Texas, you can go see out lesbian opera singer Beth Clayton in the title role of Bizet's Carmen at the Austin Lyric Opera on April 24 and 26.
If you're not in Austin, why not go to the opera in your neck of the woods? It's a perfect excuse to get dressed up and people watch behind the protective cover of a pair of gilded opera glasses. 3. Read out author Charlotte Mendelson's When We Were Bad, which was just short-listed for the prestigious 2008 Orange Prize. As AfterEllen.com book reviewer Heather A. O'Neill wrote, "When We Were Bad is quite simply the kind of story — witty, sad, true — that you won't want to end."
4. Get your friends together and play a game — I'm talking about soccer or softball or tennis, not Rock Star. Take some inspiration from Mariana's blog post yesterday about the formation of the Women's Professional Soccer League, and put the sport in sporty dyke. Who doesn't love some lesbianish team bonding? Cindy Parlow and Brandi Chastain We may be pop culture junkies here at AfterEllen.com, but I'm sure there are plenty of things we do that don't involve the boob tube. What are some of your favorite non-TV-related activities? Submitted by on April 22, 2008 - 9:00am. |
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hmm
Blasphemy!
what?
OK! i would go along with this but i have so much stuff coming on this week.
i also agree with BQ, who decided it was a good idea for this week? so not cool!
Prob bc of Earth day?
Don't know, but it seems appropriate.
Me, I gave up elevators today completely (trying to do it all the time but I go up and down a lot of flights). Of course today I had to go up more than usual...
needs tweaking....
The gentle art of doing nothing...
can be done whether sitting, walking, or standing. And by nothing, I include non-getting-paid-for-work, because we humans are all about the almighty (insert form of currency here). So, I'm a big fan of Tai Chi outreach and being volunteer crew for a theater production (Because what's better than TV? Live TV.). I have also been known to while away many an hour with a good book. However, nothing is quite so entertaining as a game of poker or a board game like Talkin' Tango, Apples to Apples or Taboo.
I do believe doing nothing is my life's pursuit. Work just pays the bills.
No time
I never have time for tv anyhow, i think i watch about an hours worth a month. I know, I know, but afterellen keeps me updated on anything important.
How about going to a drag show? Those are always fun and you might meet somebody. Or run into somebody you would rather avoid. On second thought, Game night is always a blast. Well for game junkies like me that is. Anyone for a marathon of Monopoly?
You are responsible for your own happily ever after.
This may be blasphemous to
This may be blasphemous to say on this site, but. . . I don't even own a TV. There was a stretch of about 6 months where I had one last year (no cable, just a crappy antenna with poorly-received BBC and ITV), and there was one in my apartment a few years ago that my roommates used but I pretty much ignored, but apart from that, I've been basically TV-free since I moved out of my parents' house. I virtually never wish I had one. Generally, I feel like if I have time to watch TV, I have time to do something else that I'd rather do than watch TV. Such things include: read the newspaper (this is a big one), read books, go for walks/runs/bike rides, fiddle around with musical instruments, hang with friends, paint, draw, surf the net (this last one happens more when I'm procrastinating - like right now - than anything else). I'm totally a serial hobbyist.
I Agree Why this week?
I already did this a couple of months ago during the writer's strike.
Activities that aren't watching TV include reading afterellen, watching vlogs on afterellen, and surfing youtube. Is this what you had in mind?
~adm
Laugh, Love, Live every moment, Every day
So I didn't even know they
So I didn't even know they were doing a Shot at Love 2, let alone that its airing tonight. How can they do another Shot at Love when everybody knows that Tila is straight? Wow that is completely pointless. Needless to say, I'm not going to be watching it this time around...
But anyway this is the perfect week to be "TV Turn Off Week" since it is my exam week. Now if only they had a "Internet Turn Off Week" then I would have no problem studying lol.
Everybody doesn't "know" that Tila is straight
Because she isn't. She said she isn't, and has never once backed down from that. Just because she ended up with a guy does not mean she's straight, just as if she'd ended up with a girl she'd have been gay. Personally, I'm not bi but I understand how annoyed bisexuals get when people make assumptions like that.
The show was dumb, and cheesy, and all that, but if you watched it you'd see that she really did seem into the girls at least as much if not more than the guys. That seems pretty queer to me.
Personally, I go with whatever people say. I know I hate it when people try to label me something I'm not, so I try not to do that.
I think a truer statement
now that the days are longer...
There's probably time for a walk in the park/woods/beach near you after work? Nothing like the sweet smell of nature to revive a flagging, overworked sedentary soul :) Besides, its a good excuse to give your dog a treat.
A evening out eating and drinking with friends at some buzzy patio cafe/bar would also work wonders. Maybe even watching the sun go down...
How about some poetry. Mary Oliver ( family) recent book of poems called Thirst (well, 2006) is dedicated to her partner of 40 years, who passed away. Many beautiful poems on grief.
I would also second the recommendation of Charlotte Mendelson's book "When We Wrre Bad". Quite a page turner.
Sorry,
Silly
TV Turnoff week? Who came up with that silly idea?
Of all the important things one could possibly focus on, not watching TV for a week seems rather trivial.
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-Everyone is entitled to be stupid, but some abuse the privilege.
Who doesn't blog these days?
Spend with bisexual, curious
I wish I was ...
In Austin, TX. (yes, I did just write that) I'd be all over Beth Clayton. You know, in the strictly operatic sense, of course.
My DVR is SOOOO going to be my best friend this week. Tila Tequila needs to drink herself and fall under a bar somewhere ... at a place where she can't ever get back on TV.
Speak what we feel not what we ought to say...