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We're Getting Nowhere: The AfterEllen.com NYC Meet-Up

Last week, Jill Bennett, Dara Nai and I violated our collective parole and descended upon New York City. Our objective? To crash attend Logo's NewNowNext Awards and to help Sarah and Lori co-host an AfterEllen.com Meet-Up at Cowgirl.

Along the way, we also sprung AE vlogger Bridget McManus (Brunch with Bridget, You Can't Take Them Anywhere), Dara's partner Brooke, AE vlogger Dee (Come With Me If You Want to Live), the 3Way gals (Maeve Quinlan, Nancylee Myatt, Paige Bernhardt), Oscar-winning make-up artist Tami Lane, actor/comedian Gloria Bigelow, and Big Gay Sketch Show star Kate McKinnon.

We were shocked and thrilled by the sheer number of AE readers willing to brave the rain and allow us to make the pleasure of their acquaintance. Thank you to everyone for coming out to say hello!

Since not all of you who wanted to be there could make it, we shot some video footage of our journey to the meet-up (including a heated discussion about power tools) and our time at Cowgirl. Look closely and you may even catch a glimpse of yourself at the restaurant! (Hopefully, you weren't playing hookey from work that day like I was. Doesn't it seem like the boss is always watching?)

We're Getting Nowhere: The AfterEllen.com NYC Meet-Up

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Check out more photos of the NYC meet-up and look for our coverage of the NewNowNext Awards on June 7th.

Charlie's picture

The Meet-Up Rocked!

Even though it was raining, i had such a good day!

i loved your entrance... the bar was so crowded and you all walked into the sound of screams and applause. "its the AfterEllen Vlog Stars!!" WooHoo!!!

 

Flying to New York was totally worth it :)

talkingguineapig's picture

True 'dat

The meet up was totally worth the flight there and back :D

And meeting the rest of the AE gang made up for the fact you could barely move inside that place, it was so packed! 

Explorergal's picture

How-deeeeee

 

It was such an enjoyable time at Cowgirl.  The ladies are even more beautiful in person than on the vlog and could not have been more friendly and genuine.  It was nice to meet the 'stars' as well as other AE readers.

I highly recommend an AE Meet to anyone who can get to go.

Cass's picture

Nice limo!

Just another reason i want to live in NY!

Wish i could have been there, Sydney to NY is a little far for a weekend  through (:

Looked like an awesome meet and greet, any time you ladies want to come down under, i will be waiting!!!

Amazon 's picture

Awesome

I agree with you Cass Sydney to NY is a bit far for a weekend, it did look like a fun meet and greet from the pictures that i have seen and from this vlog.

I think and i hope that the AE and 3Way crew come down under What's not to love about Australia? they could go swimming at Sydney's Bondi Beach, by the way why is it so famous, is it because Paris Hilton went swimming there?,.

if they did  come to Aus i would be so excited, i would miss a day off of school just  to meet them (that's if i was still at school if they ever came). Do you think if we beg and beg some more and keep begging and promise to be Sarah's minions (you can never have enough minions) in Australia that they would come.

Sarah Warn is so cool, but im still stumped as to why i have a huge crush on her.

Tristen's picture

God I love these girls

 

God I love these girls.  Wish they could come to Austin Texas.  Of course, if I got my wishes .... I would wish for a whole lot more then just seeing them in person.

Tristen

LESBIAN ITEMS     http://www.zazzle.com/tristen12

 

Stephanie's picture

ah !

the whole day was great.. i <3 the video.. can't believe there's a picture of me & Bridget lol thanks again for coming to NY =)
mcgloch's picture

Umbrella

Aw I wish I could have gone to the meet n greet. Looked like good craic :)

 Maybe next time you ladies could come to belfast? :P

Gezza's picture

aww maaaan

I was in NY last year in sept - a bit tooo early for your meet up. the pics look like you all had a great time. Hope i can come to the next one!

g x

JasmeenKru's picture

Great job once again. Loved

Great job once again. Loved the story Jill told about the guy who wanted to dance with her. LOL @ the girls about to pounce on the guy. Nice limo ladies. :D. Dee looked great in the pictures from the meet up.

Anyways, counting down the days till the LWord recaps for season 1. I was checking the logoonline schedule, not sure if I was reading it right, but it appears as though season 1 repeats won't be starting till the end of June. I believe its June 26th. Could someone confirm this? Sure is an awfully long time to wait for WGN. But filler vlogs have been fun :D, something to tide us over.

mcloe's picture

wgn next week?

omg, i can't wait that long for the next vlog. which brings me to my question, will there be a wgn next week? will there be a similar one for newnownext awards? cause i have to say, i LOVE these behind-the-scenes vlogs. it's awesome...

oh yeah, bridget powdering herself & dara cracked me up. it was adorable... bridget is such a femme :D

WeatherLover's picture

Jill's story

I can't watch the video because I'm reading from my phone, but I'm so curioous... What was jill's story? Can anyone tell me?
goober's picture

picture shown twice?

wow, i made it into the video. twice! in the same pic! i don't know whether to be honored or thoroughly embarassed.

:)

anyways, thanks so much for hosting, guys. i, for one, had an awesome time.

bekki from savespashley.com

playthemusic814's picture

LOL

I feel the same way! Yay for the Spasher pic! Good times.

I don't know what to say that hasn't already been said. So, I'll just say, "Best. Day. Ever."

~It means pride.~

golden_bird's picture

Man...

Looks like you all had a great time. I wish I could come to one of the meet ups... (Maybe I'll make it to France...)

-- Ultimate Lurker & Procrastinator --

Berna's picture

Great!

Very nice vlog, short but sweet and full of goodness. "That's what real friendship is like" I thought when I heard the story of that rude guy hitting on Jill. Wow.

The meet-up looked like a great and cool party. Thanks for sharing this with us. :)

 

 

BQ's picture

power drills

I wish there were dykes w/ a passion for power drills around in NYC when I locked myself out of my apt this weekend and had to pay waaaay too much money (more than Bridget pays for her multiple spaztic injuries/incidents :( ) for a locksmith to drill me into my apt.

Had an awesome time at the meetup - thanks again for coming out gals!

Frenchie's picture

Netherlands

Wow, nice to see all the vloggers in one vlog. Wish I could have been there!!! Cool to hear that the AE ladies were ready to defend Jill with all they're worth. I think all the lesbians around the world are ready to step up and defend the AE ladies, if needed.

Is it sure that some of the AE Ladies are coming to the Netherlands? If so when?  (august 1-3 would be logical because of th Gay Pride but I'm sure don't hope so because I'm on vacation then). I should come out of the closet then if I want to come.

I: Mom, could we come back earlier from vacation... like before August the first.

Mom: Why honey? Isn't then the annual Gay Pride.

I: Yes mom

Mom: So why do you want to come back?

I: Well mom, you see...some of the AfterEllen ladies are coming

Mom: never heard of the them, who are they?

I: oh, just famous people from the United States, you don't know them.

Mom: well, they will come back to the Netherlands some other time sweety if they're famous, you know that I don't have that many vacations.

I: Allright mom, but I've to go because I'm ...

So does somebody know if they're coming to the Netherlands? If so when?

ice cream's picture

what netherlands????when

what netherlands????when what where how?? Whaaat. Ill so be there if that happens. Amsterdam!
Frenchie's picture

Question

I though that Bridget really wanted to go to Amsterdam but I'm not sure if they're coming, so that's why I asked if somebody knew?

Lo's picture

I really wanted to go but

I really wanted to go but my sister was graduating from college that day so I had to be in the city, but just on the opposite end from where you guys where. I hope you guys do another mmet and greet in the city, just on a weekday.

JustShorty's picture

That was an awesome

That was an awesome video!!

I want to go to an AE meet, I think I need to move me to the US of A place!!
sati_49's picture

Jealous!!!!!!!!!!

 

Jealous? Yes I am!

 

Wow I have never wished I lived in NYC until now! Hey Sarah how about throwing us poor Midwestern lesbians a bone and meeting in like Kansas or something. That way we could all split the difference on travel! I promise all five of us will show up! Well 6 if the one lesbian from North Dakota comes.

 SD is pretty!SD is pretty!

Midwest meet and greet! We could give you tours!

See its pretty!

 

 

 

You are responsible for your own happily ever after.

Michelle's picture

Midwest

I agree that AE should come to the Midwest!! Although I'm partial to St. Louis I would drive to Kansas to see everyone. I would pay good money to go, too.
Mitch's picture

I vote STL.

I vote for a meet-up in the STL.  If I have to go door to door to drum up interest or get a petition signed I will!!! I keep buggin the local funny bone comedy club to bring Bridget to this area also.
LauraLovesYou's picture

The last line was great

Jill: Where's my veuve?

Dara: Your veuve is in your pants. 

 That was classic. Bridget was, as always, hilarious. 

ice cream's picture

the last line

what  an awesome way to finish! dara is the undisputed queen of the classic one liners! and she has red shoes! :oD

is someone at AE putting together a dyktionary or lezaurus (what was it called?!) of words and phrases originating on these pages?

the AE lovelies looked as fab as ever. tis great to see so many of them together all at once. i'm trying to imagine them in that club! wooo!

the nyc meet up looked like so much fun. i can't wait for paris.

 

mak 23's picture

you ladies rock

simply put you all are amazing. its so uplifting to see such beautiful women with such pride of who they are and the community they represent. seeing this and seeing all of you together... it makes me smile. thank you for putting yourselves out there to entertain us every week and thank you for taking the time to care about all of us AE viewers.

ok enough with the sappy stuff....loved the story of the guy from the bar who was hitting on jill...it was classic! can't wait till the l word re-caps start up again!

Lemon's picture

=D

Thank you for sharing this awesome video! Looks like you had a lot of fun!
JasmeenKru's picture

Don't think the powers that

Don't think the powers that be realize the veoh link is incorrect. Current veoh link is for the last WGN episode.
Potential_angel's picture

Amazing!

You guys seriously rock! I wish I could've gone but NYC is a long long way to go... plus I have exams and stuff but still! It would be so easy for me to go to the paris meet but I'm away for then too! Maybe you could do a UK meet sometime... like in London!

The limo ride looked hilarious btw... especially with all the talk of power drills! Can't wait for the next WGN!

Batman's picture

power tools

 

lesbian shoes, power tools, umbrellas are not microphones.  It's fun to learn.              I love these girls.

______________________________________

Cloverfield? 1-18-08-underground.com...

Glindared's picture

I wish...

I was in on that conversation about Power Drills and be able to put in my two cents worth!

Found myself in couple of the pics, way cool! Loved the bar story that Jill told...reminded me of few clueless clowns that had hit on me and another girl I was with that was also my softball teammate. Ronnie had clocked the one guy that gave us the most trouble, the cops came and hauled him away...later after he made bail I guess...he comes back to the bar and I saw him coming in, he was making a beeline for Ronnie, she didn't see him, and before he reached her -I clocked him! The bouncer even got a few kicks in because the clown made the bar look bad! Ya don't mess with two redheads! Hee...I am still flying high from the meet n greet! I am sooooo glad I was able to go and meet all of you lovely ladies. Bridget and Jill and Karman....WOW! I had so much fun snuggling with Bridget for the camera.(Take close look at avatar pic ;P) Yummy!

Thank you Sarah for making it all happen! I hope you will do it again next year at a bigger venue...although Cowgirl had slammin food! LOVED their french fries...the service was really great too. Mucho Gracias for accepting my suggestion for the group shout of ALL the AE ladies in attendance. (The idea was really Shannon's, I was just the mouth piece)

Best part of my gettting there early, besides enjoying really great food, was the opportunity of meeting Shannon (IMTHEY) and I am really happy that a friendship was born. It seemed as if we knew each other for years, we fell into an easy, comfortable conversation during the three hours before the AE girls arrived. KEWL!

Great job on the WGN vlog...

Be Well,

Loving you ALL from CT

Patti

sweetdebie's picture

"Don't drink napkins and drive"

You ladies are awesome ! I was laughing my ass off when Bridget made her lesson about drinking napkins and driving ^^

Can't wait for the meet up in Lyon

crayolarabbit's picture

Man

the long and short of it is, we watch this because we wish we had friends as cool as y'all.

sati_49's picture

sigh

and thats very true lol! Doesnt everybody?

 

"And the day came when the risk it took to remain tight inside the bud was more painfull that the risk it took to blossom." ~ Anais Nin

tootles's picture

:D

Thanks for the great footage. I could definitely feel the excitement.

***

"All my possessions for a moment in time"
[Elizabeth I]

enthused_silver's picture

Looks amazing, I really wish

Looks amazing, I really wish you would all come to London as it appears my desperate attempt to get to the Paris meet and greet has been squashed by my stupid need to work! Love you all, looking forward to the re-caps of the l word season 1!
fee's picture

Love & Powerdrills

I really hope to make it to one of those meet-ups some day. So awesome =)

I love you guys, seriously. You're all so inspiring and funny (powerdrills? WHAT?)

"Bad juju? Is that a voodoo-thing?"
"Close...but with a 'j'." 
- Malinda Lo & Sarah Pecora, 'the Lo-down'
elle1630's picture

Love the save spashley

Love the save spashley t-shirt jill had!

Power drills... when is it a good time to have a conversation about them??

Natazzz's picture

Looks like a great time was had...

WTF @ powerdrills and napkin eating.

Dara, I love your shoes.

- - - - - - - - - -

-Everyone is entitled to be stupid, but some abuse the privilege.

Who doesn't blog these days?

 

candice's picture

Missed it

I'm from nyc and just happen to be in LA/San Fran that week. Hopefully you guys will be doing one again soon
Amylin's picture

Random talk in a limo = perfection

That was a great vlog! Love the story of the guy hitting on Jill at the club, i wish i had been there to see that :D

Bridget and her "drink napkins" cracked me up so bad!!!

Great Lori imitation too Jill & Dara :) 

Kierah's picture

wish i could have gone

ok now you need to do one in LA so i can come cuase you guys would just love me.
Gaby's picture

That looked so cool

Wish I could´ve been there.

Great Lori impersonation. Jill´s story was hilarious cause I can imagine all of them getting all protective. Bridget and her safety lesson cracked me up, along with the power drill talk.

sgtmian's picture

your veuve is in your pants.

your veuve is in your pants. ha!

AE in my heart-hole 4eva. 

Elisabeth's picture

Meet-up

y'all looked so pretty..! :D
Robyn's picture

Color Me Green

You're all beautiful and so much fun! Wish I could have been there. If your tour ever has a stop in Phoenix (HINT, HINT), I'll be first in line.

Kerry's picture

Thank you AE

Thank you for posting this video, a real treat to watch.   Good job stepping up for Jill during the incident with the guy, some people really do cross the line at times.  Hope I get the opportunity to meet everybody someday. 
Kymberli's picture

I'm reliving the moment...

Great Vlog you guys,,,i caught a glimpse of myself in a couple of photos :) that was an unforgettable day...you guys are beaufitul and super nice...I wanna thank Karman for giving me pointes on dating altho at this point she may have already forgotten :) thanks again for giving us this opportunity you guys.

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