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La Roux's Elly Jackson refutes lesbian rumors

Sorry to be the bearer of bad news to all you hopeful music fans, but Elly Jackson, the adorable androgynous singer of British electro-pop duo La Roux is, in fact, not gay. It's hard to wrap your head around, I know.

But, you know, there are plenty of cute women out there who seem like they just have to be gay, and aren't, no matter how bad we want them on our team. Tilda Swinton, for example, is so straight she has two male lovers. Coincidentally, 21-year-old Jackson sort of looks a bit like a young Swinton, doesn't she?

And then there's Alicia Keys, Mariska Hargitay, and Ellen Page, some of the most popular (reportedly) straight women we just can't stop hoping will wind up gay.

Ellen Page never said anything about her sexuality either way, and didn't have a boyfriend anyone knew about (besides Ben Foster, rumored for a second, years ago), and she put up with her overly-adoring fans labeling her a lesbian due to their own wishful thinking. (I'm not saying I'm not guilty of this.)

Now that La Roux is topping charts with their singles "In For The Kill" and "Bulletproof," Elly Jackson is dealing with the fact that her fans are so convinced she's a lesbian, they're throwing their bras onstage while she performs. Awkward.

While the singer is not surprised to have a large gay fanbase, she told Heat magazine:

It's the fact that they think I want their bras — that's what's weird about it. One girl in Toronto stood there for ages with her boobs out. Everyone just thinks I'm a raging lesbian and I want to see everyone's boobs. Sorry, I'm not.

Even if she was gay, I'm sure it'd still be completely bizarre to have topless fans standing in front of you while you play. I wonder if Tegan and Sara have to deal with this. Annoying catcalls, sure, but I've never noticed crazed topless fans at their show — maybe I'm just at the wrong ones.

While she maintains she's not a gay lady, that doesn't mean you shouldn't see her (and bandmate Ben Langmaid) live.

Jackson says, "I don't care who comes to the gigs or who likes the music, as long as it's for the music and not because they fancy you. That's a s--t reason to come to a gig."

Right, so keep your bras one, ladies. It'll be easier to dance.

La Roux's latest single, "I'm Not Your Toy," was released yesterday. Just because the lyrics say "This is not another girl meets boy" doesn't mean she's saying it's a girl meets girl. Perhaps they should consider a remix: "I'm Not Your Gay."

shiggity's picture

there are videos of girls

there are videos of girls throwing their bras onstage and stories tee and ess have told with funny results of course. why anyone would do that though...i don't know.
Aya's picture

Feel sorry for straight girls

When you are cool, stylish, not dependant on men, and know yourself, we have to assume you're gay. :D
Lacey's picture

They threw bras at her?

Ha, brilliant.

I'd rather throw a shoe at her though, something about her annoys me.

Her Mother will always be cooler than her, and considering her Mother was June Ackland fro 'The Bill' that's pretty embarrassing. 

 

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Marie Debo's picture

Totally agree. There is

Totally agree. There is something about her, that makes me not liking her.

So, I'm fine with her being straight. ; )

 

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Ich fühle den Bass-
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Georgie. 's picture

I don't like her. Saw her

I don't like her. Saw her being interviewed on GMTV and I thought she was abit of an arse tbh.  I do love 'Bulletproof' though. Spiffing song.
Captain Jax Havok's picture

really? o.o

i saw her do an interview on it's on with alexa chung and thought she was quite lovely and funny :P by the way, AWESOME tegan and sara picture! :D XD
alex's picture

oh elly!

im a big la roux fan. hoped she was gay from the beginning, but her songs make it pretty clear she's straight. got to see her when she came through sf a few months ago, though, and she was fantastic. she still seems slightly shy and awkward in front of a crowd, but then again, she's still pretty young. it's not exactly pleasing to hear her assert her straightness, but i guess when you look as androgynous as she does, ppl do tend to assume certain things.

speaking of hot chicks from overseas, though, i think id rather Ladyhawke be gay (is she??). oh god, or florence!! wishful thinking?

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foxy_boo's picture

What about Quicksand? That

What about Quicksand? That song is totally gay!

 

It really doesn't matter if she's gay, I guess, doubt any of us would have a chance anyway. I agree it must be really weird to have girls throwing their bras at you though, no matter what your sex and orientation!

 

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pancreas's picture

Exactly! There is no way

Exactly! There is no way that could be about a guy. I'm surprised the article didn't mention those lyrics.

In the interview with The Guardian, she... jokingly implied she was bi? I'm not sure how to put it. She didn't exactly say she was straight. Her interviews are rather weird, and always very gender-ambiguous.

Anyway, I am seeing her live - tomorrow.

Ena's picture

Quicksand = major fire signs!

Yeah definitely!
"It seems you have forgotten about your man. Alone in the darkness my bed's a different land. Your touch intensifies...."

Total les!

In the interview she says shes "greedy" and "loves everybody" or something along those lines.
I'm totally convinced!
I'm also totally in love with ehr! hahaha
To me, she is perfect :)

I somehow hunted down this picture, and I'm quite proud!

EVIDENCE!





"Underneath and unexplored"
* w e n d y *'s picture

maybe the lyrics of

maybe the lyrics of Quicksand is for a bisexual male?
Emily's picture

Tis such a lie

She's a liar. I know for a fact that she is a lesbian no matter how much she's trying to deny it. And her songs are totally ambiguous on purpose so you can't tell whether she's talking about a grl or boy.
Lady Insane's picture

Just wondering...

How do you know that as fact? 

 

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lesbian scales's picture

Ellen is my...

future wife and no one will tell me different, sure she might not be apart of the wedding but who needs tradition?

Becca's picture

woo I love La Roux's music

woo I love La Roux's music and that last quote she had about going to a gig just because you think the artist is attractive really is a shit reason =]

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kate's picture

Oh, Elly...

Not to self: Stop flashing straight girls.
mildlypeeledpotatoes's picture

i dont like her because of

i dont like her because of this. oh, and also because her music sucks.

 

"What's your stance on the way that female musicians either choose to or are forced to use a sexuality that's essentially just designed to appeal to men?

"It's really patronising to women. I know that there's far more ways to be sexy than to dress in a miniskirt and a tank top. If you're a real woman you can turn someone on in a plastic bag just by looking at them. That's what a real woman is, when you've got the sex eyes. I think you attract a certain kind of man by dressing like that. Women wonder why they get beaten up, or having relationships with arsehole men. Because you attracted one, you twat. It's a funny culture, it's definitely a funny culture. Those women are just insecure, but they'll turn round to me and say 'you're just jealous 'cos you want a tan and you want big boobs, stupid boy-looking girl'. You can't win, they wouldn't believe me for a second."

http://community.livejournal.com/ohnotheydidnt/39331507.html

 

and this:

 

"I was in a pub the other day, and these two girls followed me into the toilet and said 'excuse me, are you La Roux?' And I was so touched because she went 'you make me feel better about being the way I am.' She had short hair, I don't think she was a lesbian, she wasn't some big butch woman coming over and going [adopts big butch voice] 'yeah wicked, you make lesbians alright', it was a girl with short hair, who wasn't very girly, who didn't have a tan, who didn't have massive boobs, didn't wear high heels."

 

Megs's picture

i really wanna hate her

but i met her outisde a gig the other day (my girlfriend made us wait about for 2 hours, nearly missing our train because she loves her so much, seriously she even told me she would break up with me to be with elly jackson.. but anyway) and she was the sweetest lovliest little lady ive met in a while. she didn't even freak out when i told her my gf was obsessed with her. she even said it was 'cool'. and then she signed all our shit. and stood for a picture. and chatted.

so i think she just says things for effect in interviews. to seem edgy or detached.

 

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Brittany's picture

Jeez, I feel sorry for

Jeez,

I feel sorry for you.

If my girlfriend said something like that to me,

I'd break up with her.

Seriously. 

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(Love me do)

Megs's picture

awh its cool she knows id

awh its cool
she knows id break up with her for sara ramirez XD

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Tapette's picture

Tegan and Sara have long had

Tegan and Sara have long had to have extra security at shows because of crazy fans, many of whom were female. People also constantly ask them if they've ever had sex, which is just sick.

I'm with mildlypeeledpotatoes on Ms Jackson. Gross comments.

Steph's picture

WHY?

Why, Elly, WHY???? 

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K's picture

I've seen La Roux play and

I've seen La Roux play and they are effing amazing. Although it was the hottest day of the year, no women took their tops off.. (although I'm pretty sure I saw a few man boobs that night).

helenm's picture

She is ambiguous in The Guardian

Well La Roux def implies she is something other than straight:
http://www.guardian.co.uk/music/2009/sep/24/la-roux-elly-jackson


Most interestingly the Guardian reports as fact that Ladyhawke is out:
'Longing for the days of the gender-bending pop star, she is delighted that not only is fellow female synth siren Ladyhawke openly gay but that Ricky Martin has tentatively admitted to being bisexual.'

theycallmeyellowmellow's picture

surely..

"not only is fellow female synth siren Ladyhawke openly gay but that Ricky Martin has tentatively admitted to being bisexual"

They have that the wrong way around ? lol Ricky martin is gayer than gay lmao.. i know he's never confirmed or anything but who does he think he's kidding?

R's picture

hahahaha

"I'm Not Your Gay" that's a good one

Koolandthegang's picture

HA :D

HA :D
theycallmeyellowmellow's picture

Lol well elly jackson

I dont believe you. I believe you are secretly a lesbian.

Nah not really but i bet she would read that and it would get her mad. she seems like the type to google her own name..

also. isnt it bizarre how her mum was june in the bill? Her mum kicked ass but she just sucks.

sannedewit87's picture

.....

I couldn't care less about Elly jackson not being gay, who's she again??? But please don't take Alicia Keys and Ellen Page away from me..... THEY ARE NOT STRAIGHT!! I don't care how many times they deny it. It's not wishful thinking, it's well almost a fact.
Emily's picture

100% gay

She needs to get her gf's mates to keep their mouths shut if she wants to keep up this straight facade because they're telling most of london.
Chi's picture

If La Roux (elley jackson?)

If La Roux (elley jackson?) smiles a bit more, maybe people will stop thinking she's a catty cold looking person.

I dont know if Alicia Keyes is gay/bi. I have neevr heard of any rumours surrounding her eventhough i so wish she IS gay/bi.

surfer_rosa's picture

I couldn't care less whether

I couldn't care less whether she's gay or not. I think her music SUCKS (having survived the crappy '80s UK pop scene once already) and I don't like her attitude (see mildypeeledpotatoes' post above). I'm glad she's sweet to her fans, but to say that: "Girls look a bit stupid playing electric guitar and drums. It suits blokes better. But girls look wicked playing synths. When they play drums or whatever, it looks a bit butch. I hope that doesn't sound anti-feminist." REALLY pisses me off, as a woman and as a guitarist. GAAAAAAH!

http://www.guardian.co.uk/music/2008/dec/17/electro-pop-female-artists

emptyinbetween's picture

Seems like there's a lot of mixed up info flowing around

about her sexuality since I happen to have a copy of a certain american mag which features an article of her and in the article is stated pretty clearly she is not willing to label herself. Which to me translates she's not straight nor gay. And something in between or out of those definitions.

But what ever the deal with her sexuality is, La Roux is an interesting band and their album is a great one. Hopefully their 2nd album is as amazing as the 1st one. And for Elly Jackson, she's got a good thing going on with the mistery part. She has stated that she doesn't want to give it all up.. and adores Prince in this matter.

 

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Chi's picture

haha I just read

haha I just read mildypeeledpotatoes's post.

She sounds arrogant already and she's only JUST started to become very popular.

 

balaustine's picture

Just Because She's Not a Lesbian...

Doesn't mean she isn't some other brand of queer.  Some of her songs seem to be addressing a girl (i.e. "Quicksand" and "Tigerlily.")  As for some of her comments, I kind of sympathize with her.  She seems to have had a rough childhood, being made fun of and labelled as gay, so her denying the rumors might be because of some of that resentment.  Maybe.  But I can see why she'd be upset that people are coming to see her shows because of her perceived sexuality rather than her music.  She's trying to make a livelihood from it, and she wants people to like her for her art, not for who she's dating.  I dunno, I'm rather partial to her because we're both gingers.  :P
Amira's picture

But Why??!!!

I've already picked out names for our kids! Bah! D:

Love her hair yet I wonder so much what it looks like before she goes to bed. Like not gelled up and all lol

 

clayrrr's picture

 i luv luv luv her style

 i luv luv luv her style tho and her hair is amazin ,how much gel wud ya say she goes thru a day ?haha :)) i hoped she was gay but i had my doubts lol shes still cool in my books tho :)
pancreas's picture

She really hasn't ever said

She really hasn't ever said she's straight as such. I don't think this article really got it right.
LoveKats's picture

*GASP*

*overly long and dramatic NOOOOO!*
Chi's picture

I dont think she should be

I dont think she should be blaming whateevr happened in her childhood on how women choose to dress in general today. Just because not every woman have the same fashion sense as her dosen't mean she can use it as an excuse to put every woman in the box (and lesbians) the way she did. Why did she put on a 'big butch voice' when mimicking a lezzie? yeah, because all gay/bi woman are butch.

If she dosen't know about why women are really beaten up in relatonships, she can open a book and read. No excuse.

Luna's picture

Umm... Is this all that she

Umm... Is this all that she said to make you assume she is not gay? ""Everyone just thinks I'm a raging lesbian and I want to see everyone's boobs. Sorry, I'm not.""

She said she's not a "Raging Lesbian" she did not say she is not gay and She's polly just piss at the assumption so she is finally publicly lashing out.

Still it's very poor taste to lash out at your fan's. At her next show I fully support "BOO'ING". 

 

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Chi's picture

I think its the way she

I think its the way she comes across in public when it comes to interviews and whatever else.

She sometimes comes off as rude. And whether she means to sound rude or not, if people listening to what you say (especially fans and non-fans) think you are a bit rude while you're an upcoming musician, that equals arrogance.

No mater how talented a person is, being rude in public isin't cool

pancreas's picture

La Roux put on a good show

La Roux put on a good show last night, though it was the shortest main act I've ever seen (~50 mins, no encores, no covers, almost no speaking). They need more songs!
aeryn20's picture

ah see...

i saw her and thought gay cause she's got cool hair i guess im as prone to stereotypes as the next person, but my gf saw her and thought nah its just her style. I dunno though, someone commented that if she wants to stay closeted to get her gfs mates to shut up, I think thats a really good point. Im sick of gay closeted or not out celebrities moaning when someone reports on their sexuality when they spent last weekend with their tongue down their same-sex partners throat in the biggest gay club in town cough* kate moenig, alicia keys, missy elliot queen latifah cough* you dont get to have both ya either come out and enjoy yaself or ya stay in ya house lonely so noone knows :P

~sarah

morriap's picture

naive

She's quite young, lets not forget, and probably still naive enough to think she can get away with being so coy when it comes to her sexuality. The bottom line is, she's never said she is straight, if she was, it probably wouldnt be such a big deal. I honestly don't believe she's straight, not one bit. Also, this may sound controversial but she does stereotypicallly look like a lesbian, she really does - and she's all about the "coolness" so im sure it wouldnt be very cool for her for everyone to guess that from the way she looks!!!!

 She's grumpy though .... quite an attitude for someone her age. She needs to grow up a little i think!

cettefille's picture

i don't believe it for a second.

i think, if anything, elly was either misquoted (it is heat magazine & they’ve already misjudged her sister jessica’s age - she is elly’s older sister.) or she deliberately said she wasn’t gay in an attempt to stop all the questioning. or as i see it - she was just being cheeky & meant she wasn’t only to the ‘raging’ bit.

i think when you are a fan as big as i am & are gay/bi yourself you can’t help but notice all the little things, body language, childhood stories, etc. you piece pieces together & it all makes perfect sense. it takes one to know one.

this all harps back to her NME interview. i think she handled that beautifully. & i completely understand why she doesn’t want to come out at this point in her career or publicly ever at all. it’s a personal decision & from my perspective ellys in it for the music & nothing else so i would be happy with her continuing to play mysteriously around the subject & never giving us an answer.

i could honestly write an essay on this subject. because we all know the truth. i wouldn’t believe her for a second even if she flat out said - “i am not gay”. she isn’t fooling anyone on our team.

& i am quite intrigued by this keeping her gf's mouth shut in london comment. ooh, gossip travels fast in the gay world!

ShakiraSchnooky's picture

I dont think its clear what

I dont think its clear what her sexuality is.

 All the quotes I've read sound quite ambiguous and shes not directly stating 'I'm straight, not gay'. She also beats around the bush alot, and waffles on.

I read one quote from an article where she says shes not gay, but she wont say shes straight. She just says anyone can fall in love with anyone.

Im assuming she bisexual. Quicksand is definitely about a girl! And it doesnt sound like the song is about a confusion with her sexuality, however that she is the sexy gay girl getting toyed with by a girl who's got a boyfriend! In I'm not your toy she does say 'Boy, your touches leave me mystified', therefore thats why I think shes more bisexual than fully gay.

 Her NME Interview:

How her sexuality is perceived has no doubt been at least a smallish thorn in her side since she rocked onto the covers of magazines after her cavalcading NME Radar Tour in May. Huddled around a pokey metal table on the balcony of the bar, still glistening in the residue of her shimmery stage make-up, she begins for the first time in the last few days to become riled. “OK, if I was going to start going out with a girl it’s hardly like I’m going to waltz round Primrose Hill, sweetly posing for pap photo’s, is it?”. She stutters.
“Because then every subsequent interview will be based around how I feel to be a gay role model, and so on. Why would I want for so many people to have one completely non-musical association with me before they’d even heard a song?”

 I understand where shes coming from, as soon as she comes out there will be alot of focus on her sexuality. It must be hard for her getting confronted about her sexuality alot, and that obviously will happen as shes mainstream. However seriously she cant be so naive, if shes going to dress the way she does, she must know her sexuality will be under speculation!

 I get that now may be a bit hard to come out about her sexuality, she wants it to be about the music and not who she loves.


 

Emmie's picture

I saw an interview with her

I saw an interview with her on YouTube, and she was asked what one of her songs meant. She said that she heard some guy used it to come out to his parents "So for now that's what it's about"...which is interesting!
Chi's picture

lol Ricky martin is gayer

lol Ricky martin is gayer than gay lmao.. i know he's never confirmed or anything but who does he think he's kidding?

Haha I agree! I saw an advert of him on tv with the ripped tanned muscles, the great abs, the slick hair and I kept wondering how the hell people cant see he's a really really gay guy

Olli's picture

Eleanor...You are such a fantastic fibber!...

hi...I'm Olli...

 

Elly Jackson is GAY AS FUCK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :P

Just wait...2 years, the headlines read: "ELLY JACKSON of LA ROUX ADMITS TO BEING A LESBIAN." 

My opinion on this is: She's a liar. Everyone lies...lying for the media about this seems like a good thing... Firstly, I refuse to beileve she's heterosexual. Everything about her is gay, yes she looks like that other Lady up there ^, but really? a girl like her; so emotional, with her spirit and her persona and androgynous look...Are we really to believe an interview? Ladies, its up to us to find out what's beneath her media get up and simply...Sleep with her ;) 

jks

um...but yeah...I mean if you HONESTLY want to know what she wants and who she wants in bed...go find out for yourselves. Whomever said that none of us have a chance is WRONG...we all have a chance. We're just too depressed and unappreciative of ourselves to realize that we do. Go start a band or start something to get her attention...work up from there. You may see yourself having a glass of orange juice in her kitchen after a night of fun ;)...I'm just sayin'....

 We're all questioning...we're all onto something...she's attracted the women of the world. But whoever flashed her own tits was right - she's probably done the one thing that all of us have secretly craved to do... I think we all have a fantasy of flashing Elly Jackson and watching her drool over them...come on! :P

Elly may have said she disliked it but... :P

 If someone did that to me on stage, I would have loved it, I'd probably wink at that girl...haha I'm from Toronto too so I know how it works up here in Canada. Everyone basically does what they want to do and that/those girl (or girlS) wanted to show off her/their body(ies) to Elly. I can't find that surprising (I'm just super glad I wasn't there because I would have been superr jealous.) Anyways, yes its a fantasy that Elly is a lesbian, and it may be a lie that she is straight. But either way she is luring us in to keep being interested like we all are. if all of us think she is a lesbian, how much does that tell us? I mean if we all know- doesnt that mean it is so possible that she is too? Yes, I think so. 

We know our lesbians.

 Quicksand, I'm not your toy, tigerlily! etc, Straight Ad-Libs in interviews, she knows herself, she is independent, stylish, androgynous. Are we stupid? :P Well I don't think we all need to believe (an) interview(s) to know. It's all about gaydar and about finding the information out yourself. I understand the whole Massive boob thing that a guy would like her because of her sex eyes, but honestly, I think a lot of guys can't even see what we see in the beauty category, It takes a good lesbian to see that sexy "thing" in her. And it takes a good lesbian to put on such a look to attract lesbians. 

Am i making sense? I want to know all ur feedback, Ladies.

 "She really hasn't ever said she's straight as such. I don't think this article really got it right." - YES PANCREAS!

"She's a liar. I know for a fact that she is a lesbian no matter how much she's trying to deny it. And her songs are totally ambiguous on purpose so you can't tell whether she's talking about a grl or boy."  - YES EMILY! 

 All you guys have it right! she's a lesbian, we don't need an interview to tell us yes or no. You'll find out when you make love to her. So keep making up your baby names and marriage plans...I think we're on to something ;)

Olli