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Don’t Quote Me: Gay Marriage and Family Values (page 7)
by Kim Ficera, September 21, 2005

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To be clear, I’m not upset with the likes of Benjamin Lopez because he’s a faithful Christian, I’m upset because he’s abandoned reason. I don’t understand why he can’t be both faithful and reasonable. The framers of our Constitution handled that challenge just fine.

The fact that America’s initial governors were able to separate religion from government doesn’t mean that they weren’t aware of the existence or importance of religious or spiritual values in life. It means, in my view, that they were so aware of the need for, and power of, religion that their language reflects the high respect they held for it by leaving it out.

The word "God" does not appear within the text of the Constitution of the United States. The words Jesus, Christ and Christianity don’t appear either. The Declaration of Independence contains the word “God,” but in this context: “the laws of nature and of nature's God.” Writers of that document clearly preferred the term “the Creator” over Jesus. When they wrote, “…that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable rights, that among these are life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness,” they didn’t mean all Christian men. If they had, they would have written it.

The idea that the writers of our most valued government documents were explicit in meaning in some paragraphs and writing in code in others is ridiculous.

Benjamin Lopez and others like him will never appreciate that I’m a lesbian, and I can live with that. But they can certainly appreciate that I am, like them, a spiritual human being with morals, values and desires. Yet they choose not to. Why?

The Christian right has provided me and everyone else who wants to play along with a frustrating brainteaser. Sure, I’d enjoy attempting to solve the riddle more if my life and liberty didn’t hang in the balance, but while writing this hasn’t been all that fun, I think I might be on my way to figuring it out.

The way I see it, there is only one answer. The trick is to match it with the right question.

So, once again, Let’s … play…Jeopardy!

Familiar music: (doo, doo, doo, doo-doo, dum, dum, dum…)

Alex Trebek: Hello again, contestants. Welcome back to…Final Jeopardy! The Final Jeopardy category is…Equality. Is everyone ready?

(Applause)

Alex: The answer is … Freedom and justice for all …
(More familiar music)
Alex: Time’s up, everyone.
(Moments later…)
Alex: Kim, what’s your answer?
Kim: What can we look forward to when reason is no longer the enemy of faith?
Alex: Amen, sister.

Kim Ficera is the author of Sex, Lies and Stereotypes: An Unconventional Life Uncensored. Her bi-weekly column Don't Quote Me is dedicated to all the folks in and out of Hollywood who talk without thinking or who don't know when to stop talking. Email her at kim@kimficera.com.

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