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Don’t Quote Me: Gay Marriage and Family Values (page 4)
by Kim Ficera, September 21, 2005

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Now, I doubt Lopez has read Nevius’ article and joined the Civil Liberties Union. He’s on mission and will probably never stop advocating against the ‘sinful ways’ of gays. But while it’s possible he got where he is on his charming personality alone, I suspect he’s smart and knows something about social history. He must realize how this will eventually play out in the federal courts, even if the court of public opinion and a few politicians are late to the game.

So, why, especially with a name like Lopez, isn’t he more sensitive to civil liberties and minority issues? Maybe it’s the Tony Soprano in me, but when I think about how Italian-Americans were treated in America at the beginning of World War II, I get pissed off. I want to find a guy like Paulie Walnuts and send him to the “place ” to see “our friend” and do the “thing.”

When, from the floor of the senate on January 28, 2004, Senator Russ Feingold reminded me and every other American that “during World War II, the U.S. Government designated more than 600,000 Italian-born and 300,000 German-born U.S. resident aliens and their families as ‘enemy aliens,’” and that “unknown numbers of German Americans, Italian Americans, and other Europeans Americans had their property confiscated or their travel restricted, or lived under curfews,” I again promise myself that I will do what I can to make sure that doesn’t happen again.

Does Lopez truly believe his values trump the rights of entire communities? Is he so far removed from history that he doesn’t care?

Granted, it’s not 1942 and Benjamin Lopez is, for the moment at least, as un-subversive as Jennifer Lopez. But if it were 1942, no one — especially the likes of the politicians he calls friends today — would give a damn what he believes.

In fact, quite the contrary, to some his name alone would have offered sufficient proof of his mental and physical inferiority and reason enough to take him behind a barn and turn him into a human fajita.

If he also had the misfortune to fall in love with a white southern belle, marry her, and attempt to live in Virginia, for example, he would likely have been imprisoned.

Consider what happened to a couple named Loving long after ‘42. In June of 1958, Richard Loving, a white man, fell in love and married Mildred Jeter, a “Negro” woman, in the District of Columbia. Shortly after their marriage, the Lovings returned to their home state of Virginia with hopes of living happily ever after. But in October of 1958, the Grand Jury of the Circuit Court of Caroline County issued an indictment, charging the Lovings with violating Virginia’s ban on interracial marriages.

In January of 1959, the couple pleaded guilty to the charge and was sentenced to one year in jail. The trial judge suspended the sentence for 25 years, however, on the condition that the Lovings leave Virginia and not return for those 25 years.

As if banishment from the home they loved wasn’t enough, the trial judge stated the following in his opinion: “Almighty God created the races white, black, yellow, malay and red, and he placed them on separate continents. And but for the interference with his arrangement there would be no cause for such marriages. The fact that he separated the races shows that he did not intend for the races to mix."

The very God that Lopez invokes daily to quash the civil liberties of the gay and lesbian community would have been summoned and used against him quicker than he could think of a metaphor for “Get me the fuck out of here!”

The faces in government have changed, the landscape has changed, but the language of today’s conservatives is frighteningly similar to yesterday’s bigots. It’s the language of calculated bigotry, where contempt is cloaked nicely in terms like “sanctity of marriage” and “family values” — terms that society must embrace or risk being accused of becoming what it’s told it must disdain.

For as far back as there are public records, there’s proof of some white guy telling a non-white guy that he’s inferior from the top of his head to the bottom of his soul. And some of the worst offenders in history were within our own judicial system.

With the constitution in one hand and a bible in the other, judges called interracial marriage “unnatural,” “sick,” “deplorable,” and a “perversion.” They claimed such marriages would be a “threat to society” and bad for the family. They insisted that the children resulting from such marriages would be “irreparably harmed.”

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