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Back in the Day: Melissa Etheridge Comes Out
by Malinda Lo, February 2005

Back in the Day is a monthly column by Associate Editor Malinda Lo that takes a look back at key moments in the history of lesbians and bisexual women in entertainment.

As we enter the first year of George W. Bush’s last presidential term, the memories of his recent inauguration still fresh in our minds, many of us might be feeling a little down. Not only is much of the country mired in snowstorms as high as your chin, the gay rights movement was seriously battered in the last election, in which 13 states passed anti-gay-marriage amendments.

I can’t help but look back with a pang of nostalgia on the first Clinton inauguration in January 1993. Bill Clinton was the first president I voted for, and I watched much of the inauguration on TV. I was moved by an unexpected burst of patriotic pride when I saw Bill and Hillary emerge from their limo to walk the last few blocks to the official ceremony—I was so glad that I helped elect him to office.

But that inauguration was notable for more than the election of the most gay-friendly president to ever lead the U.S. During the Triangle Ball, the first inaugural ball to ever be held in honor of gays and lesbians, Melissa Etheridge came out of the closet.

Etheridge had released her third album, Never Enough, the previous fall, but she was still in the closet—just barely. She came to the Triangle Ball as the guest of a friend, and ended up milling about on a balcony among celebrities including her pal k.d. lang, who came out the year before.

When Etheridge was asked to say a few words to the 2,500 gays and lesbians gathered at the historic event, she hadn’t made any conscious decision to come out. “I didn’t even think, Oh, I’m going to come out here,” Etheridge told The Advocate. “It was, ‘Gee, I’m really excited to be here, and I’m really proud to have been a lesbian all my life.’ And a big cheer went up through the whole hall, and k.d. came out and hugged me. I remember walking back, and my friend said, ‘I think you came out!’”

The Clinton inauguration was just about as gay-friendly as you could get. Gays and lesbians had contributed over $3 million to the Clinton campaign, and they were thanked with a boatload of parties and promises. In addition to the Triangle Ball, sponsored by the Human Rights Campaign, the National AIDS Memorial Quilt was carried in the official inaugural parade, and the inaugural committee held “A Salute to David Mixner,” Clinton’s senior advisor on gay issues and a leading gay fundraiser.

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