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one hand, same-sex kisses between women are all the rage in pop
culture right now, the latest plot device for television shows
and films desperate for viewers. Like the Madonna-Britney-Christina
kiss, most of these kisses are not between lesbian or bisexual
women, but between straight or bi-curious women. From this standpoint,
unless one of these pop singers is about to come out of the closet
(or unless you believe Madonna is truly bisexual, rather than
just heteroflexible or a bisexual
straight woman), the VMA performance just seems to be more
of the same--another attempt by straight women to capitalize on
this trend for career benefit, without actually improving lesbian
visibility.
On
the other hand, the fact that this performance was so blatantly
about sex, not love, does challenge the prevailing notion on television
(outside of the Playboy channel) that lesbian relationships are
just about romantic love. Shows like ER,
All My Children, and even Buffy
at times, have emphasized romantic love between their lesbian characters
while minimizing sexual desire except as an extension of romantic
love. The VMA performance does the opposite.
This
distinction, however, is likely to be lost on many viewers, since
it's a one-time performance and between straight women, not lesbian
or bisexual women, so it's not the best argument for why this kiss
improves lesbian visibility.
What
is a powerful argument, however, is that the sight of such
three well-known women with such large fan bases embracing lesbian
sexuality cannot help but normalize it, at least a little, just
as Madonna did with gay male sexuality many years ago through her
controversial video "Truth or Dare." The fact that photos
of Madonna and Britney kissing has been all over the news for several
days will also help to desensitize Americans to the image of two
women kissing. It probably won't change anyone's minds overnight,
but it does (briefly) raise lesbian sexuality to a new level of
visibility in a way that may ultimately benefit those of us for
whom lesbian sexuality is not just a performance.
Of
course, if it had actually been lesbian or bisexual women kissing
on national television, it would have been even more powerful--but
then, you'd be hard pressed to find any out lesbian pop stars with
the collective clout of Madonna, Britney and Christina, either.
Not
to mention that all three women have lesbian and bisexual fans for
whom this performance was a fantasy fulfilled. And for those lesbian
and bisexual women who had previously ignored or dismissed Britney
and/or Christina, this performance is likely to make them take a
second look.
Some
also believe this performance was an endorsement of gay marriage,
and while that may be true, that message was likely lost on the
audience in the shadow of the kiss and the general spectacle of
the awards show itself.
So
at the end of the day, the answer to the question appears
to be "both": the kiss probably was
a publicity stunt to improve the artists' popularity, but for Madonna
(who has a twenty-year track record of actively challenging homophobia
through her music) and Christina (who has also been very forthright
in her support of gay rights), increasing lesbian visibility was
likely to be at least some of the motivation.
Fortunately,
the performance succeeded at that, even as it also highlighted how
far we have to go. The amount of attention the kiss received in
the media clearly indicates how much further we have to go before
a same-sex kiss is no big deal.
We
are clearly not there yet. But next time two women kiss on stage,
or in the street, perhaps it won't be quite so shocking.
September
4th, 2003 Update:
In
a post-kiss appearance on CNN's Crossfire, Britney seemed
to be doing some damage control to placate her more conservative
fans, and she made it clear that, at least for her, this kiss was
just a publicity stunt:
""I
didn't know it was going to be that long and everything,"
said Spears. She said the singers had played around during rehearsal
and Madonna had told her they would "just feel it out and
see what happens" during the performance. "I've never
kissed a woman before," Spears said demurely. When asked
if she would "do it again," she squealed, "No,
I would not do it," but then added, "Maybe with Madonna."
When asked about how her image has changed from when she was a
squeaky clean mouseketeers, Spears said, "I think I'm still
clean living. I mean I don't go home and have orgies or anything
like that."
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