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The L Word Finale Explores Darker Side of Lesbian Relationships
Missy Faithfull, April 2004

Tina consoling Bette in the show
Tina (Laurel Holloman) discovers Bette and Candace's affair Bette (Jennifer Beals) pleads with Tina for forgiveness
Bette initiates a violent sexual encounter

**warning to non-US readers: L Word finale spoilers**

On the season finale of The L Word, Tina (Laurel Holloman) discovered her life-partner Bette (Jennifer Beals) in a compromising situation with another woman, and Tina's subsequent confrontation with Bette led to a violent sexual encounter that shocked many viewers with its brutality.

I hesitate to call what happened between Bette and Tina "rape," since although the violent sexual encounter was initiated by Bette, Tina was a willing participant by the end--but the fact that they both traded blows does not make the scene any less disturbing. It was also unlike anything we've seen before on TV, where lesbian relationships are usually always portrayed as tender and loving, and it makes one wonder: might we eventually see more woman-on-woman violence, specifically lesbian-on-lesbian violence, portrayed in television and movies?

While woman-on-woman violence has long been a staple of television (witness Dynasty's legendary Alexis/Krystle catfights), what is different about The L Word's treatment of this topic is that it was explicitly sexualized violence. Soap heroines and primetime divas will continue to take it outside for the love of a good man, or a perceived slight, but it's rare if not completely unknown to see a same-sex love relationship deteriorate into a slugfest.

The women-in-prison movies of pulp-era fiction and movies were rife with raping, beating bulldykes who preyed on defenseless, naïve women. As soon as you see the prison warden (large-boned, vulgar and gruff), you know that the new fish (usually blonde, small-waisted and scared senseless) is in big trouble. Not only will blondie have to fight to survive prison hell, she'll also have to fight to keep her virtue!

But life in prison isn't supposed to be a picnic. Life in The L Word's suburban California, however, is a different story.

The rape of female characters is now so routine in entertainment that many viewers don’t even blink at the sight anymore. With few exceptions, the violence is always perpetrated by a male antagonist; that way, female viewers have a clear-cut protagonist to root for.

But what happens when the antagonist is another woman?

In the few instances of sexualized violence between women we've ever seen on TV prior to The L Word finale, the sexual aspect of the relationship has been mostly implied. In 2003, Smallville featured Tina, a deranged girl who was psychotically obsessed with Lana, the main female character. Her shape-shifting ability made it possible for her to get closer to Lana, but only when she wore the body of a man Lana loved. This young woman paid the price for her gender-crossing, "sick" obsession of course--but because she was evil, not because she was a lesbian.

The same could be said of Buffy the Vampire Slayer's Faith (Eliza Dushku) in the 1999 episode "Enemies." After chaining the show's protagonist to a wall, holding a knife to her throat, and making it clear all too clear that she was sexually excited by the prospect of torturing Buffy, there was nowhere for Faith to go but down--but as in the Smallville episode, the sexual tension between Buffy and Faith was only implied.

Lesbian rape is a phenomenon that has only in the last few years received attention from the media. Whether because of journalistic bias, or ignorance, female-on-female rape was virtually unheard of until recently, and still thought to be very rare. But it does happen--and not just in prison. Unfortunately, rape is another way in which the lesbian community is just like everyone else.

Perhaps the team behind The L Word sought to explore this--and with good reason. Before the Bette/Tina altercation, the last portrayal of explicit lesbian-on-lesbian violence I recall is in a 1996 movie called Jaded, which starred Carla Gugino (Spy Kids, Karen Sisco). Gugino's character was raped on the beach by two female acquaintances. Neither woman had any prior relationship with the victim and there was no prison or man involved. The rape scene was a straight-up brutal assault that I found shocking and thought-provoking at the same time. The likelihood of seeing something like this on television, however, was minimal.

But television's constant search for sensational content, along with the growing prevalence of lesbian characters, could lead to more instances of woman-on-woman violence--with rape being the "ultimate" ratings grabber. Shows like Xena: Warrior Princess and Buffy showed the world that women could be just as tough as men, even if they usually finished each fight unmussed. This new breed of tough TV woman kicks ass and takes names just like a man, and while she doesn't always get everything she wants, she often does, regardless of what it takes, or who she hurts.

Now that kick-ass women and lesbian characters are so popular, don’t be surprised to see the occasional lesbian domestic violence storyline. While these storylines are difficult to watch, they are, unfortunately, realistic and necessary. Plus, how many more coming-out storylines or tearjerkers about lesbians fighting for custody of their children can we watch? Since lesbian and bisexual women finally have the media's attention (for the moment at least), perhaps it's time to explore the darker side of lesbian relationships.

Whether something criminal happened between Bette and Tina or the two women just had really dark break-up sex is still a topic of fierce debate among viewers, but it's a debate that's long overdue. Fortunately--or unfortunately--we'll have plenty of time to ponder it during the show's long hiatus.

Missy Faithfull writes from New York on sex and pop culture

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