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Sex and The L Word
Sarah Warn, April 2003

Shane (Katherine Moennig) and unknown woman having sex in a pool Tina (Laurel Holloman), Bette (Jennifer Beals) and unknown person having sex

Note: a review of how the first five episodes, including how sex is portrayed on the series,
is now available here.

Although we're still several months away from the premiere of Showtime's new lesbian series, at least one question seems to be answered: unlike almost all other lesbian characters on television, these women are actually going to have sex on screen--a lot of it, in fact, if Showtime's new promo is any indication.

Beginning in April, 2003, Showtime started running a short promo before episodes of Queer as Folk for their upcoming lesbian drama series formerly known as Earthlings and now tentatively titled The L Word, which revolves around the lives and loves of a group of lesbian and bisexual women in L.A.

The promo shows a series of scenes of the characters flirting, hanging out, and hooking up--from Shane (Katherine Moennig) having sex with an unknown woman in her pool, to long-time partners Bette (Jennifer Beals) and Tina (Laurel Holloman) having oral sex and a threesome, to Marina (Karina Lombard) seducing previously-straight Jenny (Mia Kirshner).

Strangely, the indication from the The L Word writers at a recent POWER UP workshop was that the series was going to be rather tame initially, until the show had established an audience. Based on this information, I was expecting the characters on The L Word to have lots of conversation and kissing onscreen but not much else--certainly not the scenes of oral sex, threesomes, and sex in the pool that were in the promo.

Perhaps when compared with the volume and explicitness of the sex scenes on Queer as Folk, the sex on The L Word is muted--but it's still more lesbian sex than we've ever seen anywhere else on television. That we're even going to get this much lesbian sex on The L Word is partly due to Queer as Folk--by pushing the envelope as far as it has, Queer as Folk has made it much easier for shows like The L Word to show some explicit lesbian sex scenes and still look moderate in comparison.

In a March interview with The Advocate, Laurel Holloman attributes the realism of the sex scenes to director Rose Troche (who is a lesbian), saying “the sex scenes are very powerful because Rose always made us feel really safe.”

Of course, there's always the danger that The L Word will fall into the same trap as Queer as Folk and overemphasize the sexual aspects of the characters lives to the point of caricature--but it seems unlikely. There are too many lesbians involved with the series behind the scenes to let that happen, especially since the lesbian community has never revolved as obsessively around sex as much as the gay male community has.

although there was one post-sex scene between Willow and Tara on Buffy that was fairly explicit for network TV, Melanie and Lindsay on Queer as Folk are the only other lesbians on television that you actually see having sex on a regular basis--but they still get minimal screen time compared to the male characters.

If anything, the danger is that The L Word will go to the other extreme and unrealistically de-emphasize sex, since anytime you have a bunch of women together on television, the storylines tend to devolve into soap-opera-style relationship-analysis from hell.

This is reflected in Mia Kirshner statement in an November 2002 interview with Curve Magazine that a lot of the sex on the show is going to be "extremely emotional" because "it's about power and vulnerability and loss, and a lot of it is very sad sex." While this may be the way sex is portrayed on the series, it is certainly not the message you get from the promo, where the sex appears to be anything but sad.

Perhaps this means the writers have in fact achieved a fairly good balance between sex and emotion, friendship and love.

From a marketing standpoint, it's not surprising that the promo emphasized the sex scenes. Showtime knows if they want to attract enough viewers to keep this series afloat, lesbian and bisexual viewers are not enough; they have to tap into the straight male audience. And there's nothing more likely to do that than lots of lesbian sex.

So far, the promo has only run before and after episodes of Queer as Folk, which is an interesting choice. Although clearly Queer as Folk's audience is a gay-friendly one, it also consists mostly of gay men and straight women, neither of which is The L Word's most likely target audience. A lot of lesbians do watch Queer as Folk, even if it's a small percentage of the series' overall viewers, so that is probably the audience Showtime is trying to reach with the prom, but it will be interesting to see if Showtime starts running it before more straight-male-oriented shows like Jeremiah or Street Time in the coming months.

But the fact that lesbian sex in The L Word has a dual purpose--attracting straight men AND lesbian and bisexual women--doesn't dilute its significance or its power. The ability to see fully-realized lesbian and bisexual characters with sex lives onscreen is something we've never had before on this kind of scale and with this kind of attention and thoughtfulness behind it. In short, it's nothing short of revolutionary, even if it's also a shrewd marketing ploy.

Which just makes January, 2004, that much harder to wait for--exactly the effect Showtime intended.

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