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This Month on Reality TV: Lesbian Models!
Sarah Warn, May 2003

Ebony Haith on Top Model Ebony Haith in a dance troupe Tian Kitchen and Jaree Peteet
Ebony Haith on Top Model Ebony Haith in a dance troupe Tian Kitchen and Jaree Peteet on Amazing Race

In May, we are finally going to see some lesbian/bisexual women among the many reality-show contestants currently monopolizing the airwaves.

First up is UPN's America's Next Top Model, premiering Tuesday, May 20th, a reality series which features ten models vying for the title of America's Next Top Model--which basically means lots of free publicity and a modeling contract. Among the contestants is Ebony Haith, a twenty-four-year-old African-American make-up artist from the Bronx with a shaved head who describes herself as "comical, charismatic, beautiful and religious" and, according to her bio on UPN's official Top Model site, "enjoys basketball and ice skating, and is most proud of the time she spends volunteering to produce and direct youth performances in a community based organization."

What they don't mention on the sites is that Ebony is a lesbian. Although many of the bios for the other contestants mention their boyfriends, Ebony's contains only the vague statement that "she has been with her significant other for 10 months."

In television promos for the series, however, UPN is milking Ebony's sexual orientation for all the viewers it can get, showing a scene in which the judges ask Ebony "So you're a lesbian?" and Ebony replies something along the lines of "I've always been very up front about that."

Then on May 29th, the fourth installment of CBS's Amazing Race kicks off with its first lesbian/bi contestant. The show has featured almost a dozen gay male contestants over its first three seasons, but never an openly lesbian or bisexual woman--until now.

Tian Kitchen is the pioneering contestant, a free-spirited "model/actress/singer who 'needs to be the center of attention,' according to her bio on the official Amazing Race site, and has "one of the highest IQs of all contestants though she's only completed 'some college.'" Her alternative sexual orientation is revealed in her bio through the statement that although Tian and her straight teammate, Jaree Poteet, have been friends for several years, "Jaree was disappointed when she found out that Tian, 'likes girls.' Jaree got over it, but admits that if Tian ever hit on her, it'd be over between them."

CBS' decision to emphasize Jaree's "disappointment" at Tian's sexual orientation, and Jaree's fear of being hit on by her friend, is clearly rooted in homophobia (would a straight woman ever say that about her straight male friend, or vice versa?). It is likely no accident that the first lesbian or bisexual woman on the show is teamed up with a straight woman rather than another lesbian/bisexual woman, since Tian is far less threatening to heterosexual viewers this way.

Although reality TV has taken over the primetime airwaves in the last few years, lesbian and bisexual women have primarily been confined to MTV's Real World or Road Rules series, with only two or three lesbian or bisexual women on non-MTV reality series. This is partly because many of the shows revolve around dating (Joe Millionaire, The Bachelor, etc.), and the world just isn't ready yet for Who Wants to Marry a Lesbian Millionaire? But that doesn't explain why we don't have more lesbian/bi women on contest shows like Survivor and American Idol.

So it's a nice change to see more lesbian/bi contestants popping up on reality TV finally, even if they apparently have to be models to qualify. Not exactly your typical lesbian, but then few of the heterosexual women who compete on these shows are representative of the average straight woman, so why should lesbians get special treatment?

That's what equal opportunity is all about, after all--allowing lesbian and bisexual women the same chance as their heterosexual counterparts to embarrass and humiliate themselves on national television.

July 10th Update: Ebony was eliminated from Top Model in the fourth round, and Tian and Jaree were eliminated from The Amazing Race in the seventh round.

Interestingly, CBS removed the statement about Tian "liking girls" from her bio on the site only a few weeks after the show started, and no reference to Tian's sexuality was ever mentioned on the show. Tian briefly addresses both topics in our interview with her.

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