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Karen Walker and the Bisexual Straight Woman (page 3)
by Sarah Warn, June 2003

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This tenuous balance between risk and caution has defined Will and Grace from the start, and the series' uneasy compromise between the two is reflected in most of the characters, especially Will. Although NBC defied convention by featuring a show about a gay man, it consistently refuses to allow Will to have a boyfriend (or even let him kiss another man, except in jest).

Many will argue that this compromise is required to allow the series to remain successful, to enable NBC to attract the hip, liberal viewer by featuring unusual characters with sexualities that push the envelope, but also keep the slightly more conservative American viewer from being scared off by not allowing these "alternative" sexualities to go much beyond theoretical. While it may not be true that this compromise is necessary to keep Will and Grace on the air, it probably is one of the reasons the show has kept its high ratings.

Karen's ambiguous sexuality is a by-product of this environment. Her jokes and behavior challenge network television convention, but stop just short of openly defying it. So while she might have been truly bisexual if the series were running on cable television, or on network television several years from now, on NBC today Karen is confined to the role of what I like to call the Bisexual Straight Woman.

This is a woman who frequently makes direct or thinly-veiled comments about being attracted to other woman, occasionally kisses or sleeps with them, but rarely or never actually dates women. She sees herself primarily as heterosexual, and while she is attracted to women, it's purely on a sexual level; she has no interest in a romantic relationship with another woman beyond sex, aside from the occasional odd relationship in her past.

In short, she is the heterosexual idea of a bisexual woman: attracted to women, but ultimately needing a man.

Fictional manifestations of the Bisexual Straight Women have cropped up all over TV (Bird on Soul Food and Samantha on Sex and the City) and film (Laure in Femme Fatale, Laura in The Hours, Lauren in A Girl Thing, and Gaby in 8 Women) in the last few years.

Several real-life women would seem to fit this description, too, such as Lisa Marie Pressly, Alanis Morisette, and Madonna, not to mention a myriad of women on reality TV shows, like Brynn on MTV's The Real World Las Vegas.

There are several ways to define bisexual, of course, and no one definition is the right one, but most include at least the possibility of a relationship with another woman beyond sex in the future. So while Karen's not-exactly-hetero sexuality is still a challenge to heterosexism, it's not really bisexuality, either. She shouldn't be considered representative of the average bisexual women, who values relationships with women for more than just sex, at least once in a while.

But then, there are few things about Karen Walker that can be said to be representative of the average woman of any sexual orientation, which is one of the reasons we keep tuning in to watch her every week.

None of this is meant to imply that Karen hasn't contributed to bisexual visibility on television. Five years of innuendo and implied bisexuality on Will and Grace has helped familiarize the American public with the idea that women can be attracted to men and women, and the frequent (and lengthy) kisses between Karen and Grace have contributed to desensitizing viewers to lesbian kisses.

Karen is also just plain funny, interesting, and unconventional, and a refreshing departure from most female sitcom characters.

Wanting Karen to be bisexual doesn't mean she is, and unless the Will and Grace writers decide to finally give Karen a girlfriend, we'll have to look elsewhere for that. But we can still enjoy Karen's witty and eccentric attempt to make the world not quite so straight on Will and Grace.

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