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Gay Men vs. Gay Women on TV (page 2)
by Sarah Warn, November 2003

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But as always, the numbers don't tell the whole story, because although there are fewer lesbian and bisexual characters on TV, in other ways gay men clearly get the short end of the stick compared to lesbian visibility--most notably, when it comes to public displays of affection on television.

To put it simply, gay women can kiss on TV, gay men can't.

Oh, there are the occasional network television shows that have featured a kiss between two gay men, like the Dawson's Creek series finale last season and the occasional joke kiss between Will and Jack. But you can literally count the number of times this has occurred in the last five years.

Even on cable TV, it's rare to see two gay men kiss unless you're watching Queer as Folk or Six Feet Under--despite the fact that Queer as Folk has been on the air for several years now and should have made gay male kisses on TV less taboo.

Women, on the other hand, have much greater latitude in this area. Last season, we saw lesbian kisses on Buffy, ER, Friends, Firefly, Fastlane, The Twilight Zone, Soul Food, and All My Children, not to mention Queer as Folk and The Wire; in the first three months of this season, we've already seen multiple lesbian kisses on Nip/Tuck as well as on lesbian-themed episodes of Dead Like Me, Boomtown, and The Handler.

TV execs still seem to believe lesbian kisses between straight female characters and/or characters who aren't going to be around for more than an episode or two is far more palatable to the American public than kisses between regular characters, so we still have a ways to go before we're achieved equal treatment.

But even with these challenges, kisses between women still far outnumber kisses between men on TV.

There are also no bisexual men on television, since apparently male bisexuality is the TV exec's kryptonite. There aren't many bisexual women on TV, either, but there are at least a few (Maggie on K Street, Lena on All My Children, Alice on The L Word).

Despite these differences, there are a few common themes in the representation of gay men and women on TV. The majority of both gay men and gay women on TV are white and under 40, and conform to conventional standards of beauty (read: thin and attractive).

In ensemble series, the storylines of gay characters of any gender are almost always marginalized compared to the storylines of the straight characters (ER, NYPD Blue, Two and Half Men, Sex & The City, etc.), unless the series is on HBO or Showtime.

And ultimately, the portrayals of gay men, lesbians, and bisexual women on TV are all still subject to popular stereotypes and misconceptions, even if the nature of these stereotypes differ for each group.

While we shouldn't gloss over the differences in the way gay men, lesbians, and bisexual women are portrayed on television, we shouldn't over-emphasize them in order to complain that one group is more discriminated against, either. It's not only an inaccurate oversimplification, it's counterproductive to the ultimate goal of improving visibility for all gay people.

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