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Gay Men vs. Gay Women on TV
by Sarah Warn, November 2003

The cast of "Will and Grace"
The cast of "Queer as Folk"
Lena and Bianca on "All My Children" Tina and Bette of "The L Word

Who has better representation on TV, gay men or gay women? This question is often debated within the gay community, with each group usually complaining that the other clearly has the upper hand.

The reality is that as tempting as it is to make this a black-and-white issue, it's ultimately both better and worse for gay men vs. gay women on TV.

First, in terms of sheer volume of characters, gay men win every season by a landslide. This season, for example, there will be 33 recurring or regular gay male characters on TV between September of 2003 and August of 2004, compared to only 22 lesbian or bisexual women during the same time period.

Here's a snapshot of the regular or recurring (i.e. appear in at least three episodes) gay, lesbian, and bisexual characters that are or will be on TV this season (for ease of comparison, network TV characters are in gray, cable/premium characters are in yellow):

Gay Men on TV* Lesbian and Bisexual Women on TV*
Will & Jack on Will & Grace (2)
John on NYPD Blue (1)
Philip and Simon on It's All Relative (2)
Lou & Pete on A Minute with Stan Hooper (2)
Adam on Half & Half (1)
Michael on Oliver Beene (1)
Jane on Coupling (1)
Judith on Two & Half Men (1)
Dr. Kerry Weaver on ER (1)
Bianca and Lena on AMC (2)
Ellen Degeneres on The Ellen Degeneres Show (1)
Sanford on Sex & The City (1)
David & Keith on Six Feet Under (2)
Julien and Tomas on The Shield (2)

The cast of Queer as Folk (6)
8 of the 16 men on Boy Meets Boy (8)
The cast of
Queer Eye for the Straight Guy (5)

Vanessa and Liz on Nip/Tuck (2)
Maggie on K Street (1)
Melanie and Lindsay on Queer as Folk (2)
Det. Greggs & Cheryl on The Wire (2)
The cast of The L Word (7)

TOTAL = 33 (9 Network TV/24 Cable or Premium TV) TOTAL = 20 (6 Network TV/14 Cable or Premium TV)

*does not include the occasional gay reality-TV contestant, like Chip & Reichen on The Amazing Race 4 and Ebony on Top Model

Any way you slice it, there are far more gay characters on TV than female ones. If you look at only network TV, for example, it's still 9 gay men to 6 gay women (3 of which are on daytime TV, not primetime). If you look at only gay characters on cable & premium channels, it's 24 to 14.

And the ratio has been lopsided like this for years; in fact, it is only the sheer volume of lesbian characters in the upcoming series The L Word that saves gay men from outnumbering gay woman as completely as they have in the last several seasons.

There are also more gay men on sitcoms than gay women this season (8 to 2), since apparently there are no funny lesbians except Ellen Degeneres. When lesbian or bisexual women are on sitcoms, they're almost always relegated to very minor roles (Two and a Half Men), while gay men are usually a more prominent part of the cast (Will & Grace, It's All Relative, Oliver Beene, etc.)

The only sitcoms that ever revolved around a lesbian--Ellen and The Ellen Show--didn't last very long.

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