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me say straight off that
I like Rosie O'Donnell. I think
she's a good actress, a terrific comedienne, and generally just
a good person. I also appreciate the fact that she has finally come
out publicly, since she is such a household name among Middle America.
All
of which is what makes her new book, "Find Me," that much
more disappointing.
Although
it purports to be a memoir, her book is basically a lengthy
demonstration of Rosie's assertion that she has difficulty setting
boundaries and is "always in savior mode" (p. 36). An
interesting insight, but one that could have been sufficiently communicated
in five to ten pages instead of two-hundred.
The
book follows Rosie's experience with a young woman with multiple
personalities, and it's a somewhat interesting story if that's what
you're looking for. Unfortunately, if you're reading the book intending
to learn more about Rosie's life and background, you're likely to
be puzzled and dissatisfied.
There
are drips and drabs of stories and details about Rosie sprinkled
throughout, but it's definitely not the meat of the book by any
stretch of the imagination. More like the garnish, hidden under
the vegetables.
Perhaps
the fault actually lies in the marketing of the book, since
the media has focused so heavily on the disclosure
of Rosie's sexual orientation in "Find Me," a topic to
which only a few sentences in the book are actually devoted (and
then only in passing reference). This disproportionate emphasis
on this news has left the impression that this book reveals more
personal information about Rosie than it actually does.
For
students of psychology, or die-hard fans of Rosie who just can't
get enough of her, "Find Me" is well-written and moderately
entertaining.
For
the rest of us, it only raises more questions than it answers.
Amazon.com:
"Find Me"
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