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Interview with Alienated's Iris Graham
Sarah Warn, April 2004

Iris Graham plays closeted lesbian teen Isabelle on the Canadian TV series Alienated, a comedy about a family that is experimented on by aliens. As the second season kicked off last week, Iris tells us what changes are in store for her character this season--and how being willing to kiss a girl got her the part in the first place.

How would you describe Alienated? Isabelle?
Alienated is a show about a family, the Blundells, whose members get individually and repeatedly abducted by aliens. These aliens experiment on the Blundells and alter their behavior to make them very sexually driven so that they will reproduce. This has bizarre effects on all of their lives. While in some ways, the family becomes further “alienated” from each other and the community, ultimately the abductions bring them closer together by forcing them to deal with all the issues they have ignored for so long. But I don’t mean to make it sound like a wholesome
show meant for family viewing – it’s definitely not! Teenagers would like it, but it’s not for younger kids. It’s offbeat, dark, has a lot of sexual content and is, of course, hilarious.

Isabelle is moody, sarcastic, and rebellious. She thinks her family is lame, in particular her mother, so she shuts them out of her life. She fights with her younger brother and generally tries to stir s*** up in her family. But she’s also really sensitive and insecure. She has a big secret that she’s hiding from her family and a big secret that she's hiding from her girlfriend, so she's got a lot to deal with and she seems to be in a constant state of turmoil.

How does Isabelle's sexuality fit within the overall theme of the show?
The premise of the show is that all of the characters are “alienated” in some way. Isabelle’s sexuality is what alienates her because she’s confused and shuts everyone out. In the end, I think Alienated makes fun of the idea of a “normal” family. After all, every family has its dysfunctions and, if you take out the part about the aliens, I think a lot of people could relate to the Blundells and how they deal with a crisis situation. Furthermore, what if something like this did happen to your family? Wouldn’t it make all your everyday issues seem ridiculous and unimportant?
Isabelle’s sexuality, for example, isn’t such a big deal after all in comparison to alien abduction.

How have Alienated's viewers reacted to Isabelle, and to her relationship with Nina?
A lot of people comment to me on Isabelle’s moody bitchiness. (I don’t know if you can write that, but it’s what they say). But I don’t really see Isabelle that way. I think she’s just out to have a good time, while keeping others at a distance, and she uses sarcasm to do that. As for her relationship with Nina, I’ve been getting quite a bit of the typical young male response, which is that it’s “awesome” and “hot”. And while I appreciate the support, I don’t give those opinions much credit. I haven’t seen or heard any negative responses to the show, my character, or her relationship, which is great.

How are you similar/dissimilar to Isabelle?
I’m not that similar to Isabelle, but I admire a lot about her. She allows herself to be moody and sarcastic and doesn’t care what people think of her. I’m much more cautious and I try to hide my bad moods so that I don’t offend people! Also, Isabelle is way wittier than I’ll ever be. I laugh more than her, but I’m not as funny. Plus, I get along well with my family and am close to my parents. I wish she could learn to do the same, but I just don’t see it happening…One thing I do relate to is her insecurity. She covers it with her sarcasm, but deep down she lacks
confidence. I think everyone knows what that’s like (especially actors).

There aren't many lesbian characters on TV, which makes Isabelle unique; how do you think she impacts/contributes to lesbian visibility?

I think what’s unique about Isabelle is that she’s a teen struggling with her sexuality, which you don’t see very often on TV. She’s in the closet, deliberately lying and hiding the fact that she’s gay from her parents, while being pressured from her girlfriend to come out. So she’s in a very awkward situation and she’s almost naive in her approach to her own sexuality because she just can’t bring herself to face it. Forget the aliens – Isabelle’s dilemma is very real and I’m sure a lot of young people can relate to it. But then the show does bring in this element of aliens, and it has a bizarre sense of humor, which somehow makes her situation less grave.

What can we expect from Isabelle in the second season? Is she finally going to come out to her family?
I don’t want to give anything away because the storyline is so good! But I will say that Isabelle’s sexuality isn’t avoided; in fact, it becomes central to her character in the new episodes. And like I said, the abductions have a funny way of bringing out all the Blundell secrets…

What happened with Isabelle and Nina? (since the second season picks up with Isabelle dating a girl named Charlie, with no mention of what happened with her and Nina or whether Nina is still around)
In the new episodes, Nina was supposed to have a great storyline in which she becomes quite strong in her sexuality, comes out, and really takes a stand. But for some reason the actress who played Nina decided that she wasn’t comfortable kissing a girl after all and that she didn’t want to come back. So a new character had to be
written in and a new person cast for the role. In the end, it turned out to be a great thing. Charlie is a fun, energetic character to contrast Isabelle and I got along really well with Michaela Mann (the actress).
As for Nina, our breakup isn’t directly addressed. But anyone could see there was tension in our relationship. On top of that, she showed up at my house drunk and came on to me in front of my parents. (Luckily, they were too distracted to notice.) But I was not impressed at all and it can be assumed that our relationship ended
there.

What's been the most unexpected consequence of starring in Alienated?
I would have to say it’s learning how to deal with this image as a gay character. Sometimes I find it hard to know what to say on the issue because I want to be “politically correct,” but on the other hand, I really don’t think it’s that big a deal. I keep getting asked if I found it “hard” to portray a gay character and I have to say no. After all, everyone knows what it’s like to be attracted to someone, whether you’re gay, straight, or bisexual. And Isabelle’s sexuality is really only one aspect of her character; there’s so much more there and she’s an incredibly fun person to get to be every day.

How did you land the role of Isabelle? Did you know she was going to be a lesbian?
Alienated was somewhere between the 25th and 30th audition I went to (I counted) and at that point, I had yet to book a part. I did know that Isabelle was gay; it said so in the character description. I don’t remember ever hesitating or questioning whether it was something I wanted to explore or not. I just remember loving the script and thinking how fun it would be to play her. I went to one audition and then two callbacks and at the second one, it was between me and another actress. The role actually went to her and I was so upset! But about a month later, I got a call from my agent asking if I was definitely, definitely comfortable kissing a girl. I said yes. It turned out that the other actress, who was quite a bit younger than me, was having some problems with that aspect of the character. So that was it; I got the part!

Tell us about your background (where you grew up, hobbies, how you got into acting, etc.)
I grew up in Vancouver, BC. My parents divorced when I was two and my older brother and I lived half time at each house. I had a lot of different hobbies! I tried dancing, figure skating, horseback riding, softball, gymnastics, art, rock climbing…You name it, I tried it. But none of them lasted; I’d usually do them for about a year and then stop. I do play the cello, though. I took private lessons and played in various ensembles for eight years. I’m proud to have that skill. I started acting in Grade 8. At the last minute, I decided to take drama over choir and I ended up loving it. Then in Grade 9, I joined a local acting class outside of school called The First Step Actors’ Workshop with Russell Porter. He helped me get my agent and I started going to auditions.

What would you like to do next, after Alienated?
I would love more than anything to do a third season of Alienated! That would be a dream come true. If that doesn’t happen, I want to continue to audition and act as much as possible while going to university in September. I’m going to study commerce and maybe acting as well. In the meantime, I’m off to Europe to go backpacking for
four months.

Note: Alienated airs Tuesdays at 10:30pm on the Space channel in Canada

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