Lesbian
daughters appear to be the accessory of choice
for politicians these days. A few years ago, there were
virtually no politicians with openly gay daughters—at
least, not according to the press—and now it seems
like every time you turn on the TV or open a newspaper,
you're reading about some political candidate's lesbian
daughter and how he, or his detractors, feel about it.
Not
that there's anything wrong with that—in fact, quite
the contrary. But this sudden increase in focus on politicians'
lesbian daughters does raise some interesting questions
about the media, politics, and gay rights.
The
most visible lesbian daughter in politics is Mary
Cheney, daughter of Vice President Dick Cheney and his wife
Lynne. In this week's televised vice presidential debate,
Democratic candidate John Edwards praised Vice President
Cheney and his wife for their support of their daughter:
Although
he visibly stiffened at the reference to his daughter's
sexuality, when given a chance to respond, Cheney said simply,
"Let me simply thank the senator for the kind words
he said about my family and our daughter. I appreciate that
very much."
Mary
Cheney has been a controversial figure, both within the
Republican party (for being openly gay) and within the gay
community (for being openly Republican, and not the Log
Cabin kind). She has been unable to escape the public eye
despite repeated attempts to keep a low profile, and her
sexuality seems to be a lightning rod for both Democrats
and Republicans, as evidenced by conservative Illinois Republican
Alan Keyes's recent description of Mary Cheney as "a
selfish hedonist" on a radio talk show.
Keyes may be regretting his words now that
the candidate for U.S. Senate is currently dealing with
a lesbian daughter situation of his own. The internet and
even some traditional news outlets have been buzzing for
days with the assertion that Keyes's 19-year-old daughter
Maya is a lesbian, based on a blog she has reportedly published
for three years on the web detailing her relationship with
another young woman.
While
neither Alan nor Maya Keyes has confirmed the rumors, they
have not denied them, either—and for the usually blustery
Keyes, that speaks volumes.
In
Portland, Oregon, ex-police chief
and current mayoral candidate Tom Potter is beating his
opponent Jim Francesconi soundly in the polls so far—in
part, according to a recent survey, because of Potter's
public support for his lesbian daughter, Katie. Potter marched
in uniform in gay rights parades to support Katie, a Portland
police officer, and he explicitly sought to recruit gay
and lesbian candidates to the police force during an appearance
on a Portland cable station—both actions which raised
the ire of fellow police chiefs, according to Potter, but
which seem to strike a positive chord with many Portland
voters.
Meanwhile,
openly gay Chrissy Gephardt, daughter of Missouri congressman
(and former Democratic presidential candidate) Dick Gephardt,
continues to be an outspoken advocate for gay rights for
a long time, and was recently in the spotlight as a contestant
on Showtime's reality show American Candidate.
There
have always been politicians with gay daughters,
of course. But never this many with daughters who are openly
gay—at least, not to the general public's knowledge.
Which begs the question: is this trend a reflection of lesbians
being more open about their sexuality, society being more
tolerant of lesbianism, or simply of journalists being more
willing to report on sexuality?
Most
likely, it's a combination of all three. Society clearly
has become more accepting of alternative sexuality
(although exactly how much more accepting is open to debate),
which has prompted more lesbians to come out, which in turn
makes mainstream news outlets feel more comfortable reporting
on it. This increasing factual (rather than lurid) reporting
of lesbian sexuality in the media contributes to de-sensationalizing
and normalizing the topic for Americans, and thus the cycle
starts all over again.
It
is also a reflection of the increasing intrusiveness of
the media, who no longer adhere to the belief that children
of public servants (especially adult children) are off-limits,
and of the fact that gay rights is a particularly hot topic
right now given the gay-marriage legislation in progress.
Not
all visibility is good visibility, and simply the
fact that there are more lesbians in the news these days
doesn't spell victory for gay rights (as recent legislative
setbacks attest). But having gay children personalizes the
issue for those in power, and puts a human face on gay rights
for many Americans.
So
while we deride the hypocrisy of Alan Keyes, debate whether
Dick Cheney is just supporting his daughter to attract the
moderate vote, or marvel that Portland may soon elect such
an openly gay-friendly mayor, let's wonder for a moment
at the fact that elected politicians, and the rest of America,
are openly discussing their gay daughters at all.