What's
Cooking (2000) is the kind of movie that not only
celebrates diversity, it serves it up as a
nine-course meal--literally. Written and directed
by Guriner Chadha (who also wrote and directed the current indie
hit Bend it Like Beckham)
and featuring a star-studded cast that includes Joan Chen, Alfre
Woodard, Dennis Haysbert, Mercedes Ruehl, Julianna Margulies,
and Kyra Sedgwick, the story revolves around four neighboring
L.A. families of different ethnic origins--Vietnamese-American,
African-American, Jewish and Latino--as each family celebrates
the Thanksgiving holiday in their own unique and drama-filled
way. It's an interracial-lovefest, dysfunction-transcends-race
cinematic version of "it's a small world after all."
What's
Cooking is as much about generational divides, however,
as racial ones, as the children in each family struggle with
the difference between their world and the one their parents
grew up in. Consequently, the children in every family keep
their distance from their parents because, as one character
summarizes, "I can't be myself with them." It's also
a commentary on how isolated we have become from our neighbors
and families in these days of sprawling suburbs.
Enter
the Jewish couple Herb and Ruth Seelig (played by Maury
Chaykin and Lainie Kazan) and their daughter Rachel (played
by Sedgwick), who is visiting from San Francisco with her lover
Carla (played by Margulies). Rachel's parents know about Carla's
relationship with their daughter, but prefer to try and ignore
it, as evidenced by the fact that the women are put in two twin
beds in Rachel's old room whenever they visit.
There
is much wringing of hands and whispered conversations along
the lines of "what did we do wrong?" whenever Herb
and Ruth are confronted by evidence that forces them out of
their denial (like when Ruth brings them cappuccinos one morning
and finds them sharing the same twin bed), but very little direct
discussion about it with their daughter.
All
four stories unfold over Thanksgiving weekend, with
the usual preparation-for-the-big-day montage of food made more
interesting by the cultural variations on the big feast. There
is also a big helping of drama (sometimes too
much), almost always caused by someone's failure to communicate.
The film attempts to offset this with moments of wisdom wrapped
in levity (such as when one character quips "I guess you
can't call yourself a family if someone isn't speaking to someone
else") and mostly, it succeeds.
Thanksgiving
in the Seelig family this year is every lesbian couple's version
of hell: a big family dinner in which Rachel
and Carla are supposed to pretend they're "just roommates"
because Rachel's parents don't want the extended family members
to know the truth. So of course, much misunderstanding ensues
and the dinner alternates between comical, uncomfortable and
painful as her elderly Aunt Bea pesters Rachel about why she's
not married yet and her hard-of-hearing but very opinionated
Uncle David yammers on about his support for a racist, anti-gay
politician.
When
Rachel can't take it anymore and tells the family her big secret--that
she and Carla are having a baby and her brother's wife's gay
brother is the father--her parents are finally forced to deal
with the fact that the relationship between Rachel and Carla
is not going away. The reactions around the dinner table vary:
Rachel's brother and his wife are extremely supportive, Rachel's
parents are flabbergasted and unable to process the information;
and the aunt seems to take it in stride, explaining to her husband
"Rachel is a lesbian--you know, like Ellen."
Sedgwick
and Margulies appear to be very comfortable around
each other, and make a believable lesbian couple
(aside form the fact that they're both more attractive than
the average woman). There are no racy sex scenes, but there
is a lot of physical affection between the two women and a very
non-platonic kiss (in an interview included on the DVD, Kyra
Sedgwick talks about how she and Margulies prepared for the
role by spending time together, visiting lesbian bars, talking
about what it would be like to be gay, etc.)
The
lesbian storyline is progressive and realistic, if a bit predictable,
and the two lesbian characters are portrayed as the most sane
and well-adjusted members of the family (along with Rachel's
straight-but-supportive brother). But although this film is
very forward-thinking in articulating its vision of the value
of diversity, it could have pushed the envelope even further
by writing the lesbian characters into one of the other families.
Lesbian characters in Hollywood movies are almost always white
even in racially-diverse casts, which reinforces the myth already
believed by many that homosexuality is a "white" problem;
the decision to do the same thing in What's Cooking
represents another missed opportunity to showcase the diversity
of the lesbian community and to provide visibility to lesbians
of color.
Overall,
the storylines are engaging and skillfully intertwined,
and the acting well-done. There are more than a few unnecessary
scenes of overwrought drama in the film (particularly within
the Vietnamese family's story), but this is balanced out by
the many moments of subtlety and humor that add rich texture
to the film.
The
film succeeds in creating its small-world feel without hitting
you over the head with it too often, and unlike many other films
about family dysfunction on the holidays, which tend to lean to
one extreme or the other, What's Cooking lands somewhere
in-between neatly tying up all of the loose ends and leaving them
all untied.
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What's Cooking on DVD