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Review of Amour de Femme
by Shauna Swartz, May 4, 2005

Amour de Femme

Warning: some spoilers
Amour de Femme (France, 2001) has all the trappings of a passionate tale of lesbian love: two attractive women, a beachside resort, plenty of time on their hands… But the women seem less than enthusiastic, the beach is dreary (was it too expensive to get a film permit for the Riviera?), and time is plentiful in a boredom-inducing way.

Jeanne is an osteopath living in Paris with her husband of eight years, David, and their young floppy-haired son, Louis. David arranges a birthday party for his oafish best friend Frank, and Frank’s cousin Marie, a dancer, is the entertainment for the evening. Jeanne is mesmerized by Marie’s dancing and soon the two are doing more than just entertaining thoughts of an affair.

It’s hard to generate, let alone sustain, dramatic tension in a plot that has been done so many times before, and Amour has little to add to the bored-housewife-leaves-husband-for-another-woman genre. Will Jeanne ultimately leave her husband for Marie? Jeanne and Marie’s story is explored with so little oomph that as the final credits roll, it’s hard to muster the curiosity to ponder their ultimate fate as a couple. It’s simply hard to feel invested in characters that are so thinly developed.

Among the many unexplained aspects of the story is why Jeanne suddenly decides to switch teams after eight years of marriage. There’s no indication that she’s even had particularly close relationships with women in the past. Her only friend in the movie before Marie comes along is a woman who laughs at her and asks if it’s a joke when Jeanne tells her she has fallen in love with a woman. Jeanne—a health professional—has as little in common and as little emotional closeness with her one friend—who smokes while pregnant—as she does with her husband. Or with Marie for that matter. Jeanne is thoroughly unattached.

Jeanne’s life with David doesn’t seem to be particularly fulfilling to her. Shortly after they arrive at the party he takes off to hang with his buddies. Jeanne doesn’t seem to know anyone there and roams the party aimlessly, looking awkward and somewhat bored, until she and Marie strike up a conversation. Once they’ve begun their affair and David learns of it, the viewer learns that it isn’t the first act of infidelity in their marriage. He demands to know whether “this lesbian thing” is genuine or if she is simply trying to get back at him.

Jeanne may feel unfulfilled in their marriage but she also seems more generally restless and dissatisfied with life. She picks at her food at a restaurant and Marie asks if she’s unhappy with what she ordered. Jeanne answers that she always orders what she doesn’t like. It’s unclear whether her lust for life has long been in disarray or if it’s just her eating that’s somewhat disordered.

Jeanne’s general unhappiness certainly affects her body image. When the tall, slim beauty decides to attend Marie’s dance class shortly after meeting her at the party, she digs a shiny fuchsia unitard out of her closet. It’s a fashion statement that supports her claim not to have danced in ten years, something she only realizes she has missed once she meets Marie. Jeanne tries it on and vamps in the mirror coquettishly, until the music as well as her spirits fizzle. She stops dancing and grimaces while prodding her washboard belly as if it were plump.

Perhaps motherhood has affected her spirits more than her waistline and she feels disillusioned by it as well as by marriage. In her professional life Jeanne heals people and cares for them but she doesn’t seem to be cared for herself. The suggestion is that she is neglected but has resigned herself to this neglect until she meets Marie and remembers that life can be so much more vibrant. Jeanne tells Marie that she’s the most alive person she knows, but Jeanne seems drawn more to Marie’s joie de vivre rather than to the woman herself.

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