Lesbian
Moms Rock at Mamapalooza by Robert Urban, May 31, 2005
On
May 25th, over 25 acts in the 2005 Mamapalooza
Festival Tour roared into Manhattan’s Cutting
Room lounge/music club for a pre-concert press conference
and massive four-hour live show.
Mamapalooza
is the fountainhead of an exciting, long-overdue
movement in American women’s music. It is
inspiring a whole new generation of talented mamas
everywhere to change from “soccer moms”
into all-star “rocker moms.”
The
mother-studded touring extravaganza includes rock bands,
singer-songwriters, poets, and comics. The women of Mamapalooza,
as the festival's press release says, “have learned
to balance the demands of life at home and life on the road.
They are the real mothers of rock!”
“Mamapalooza
came about because of a group of women who were bursting
with creativity, inspiration and song. We wanted to show
that we could also be entertainers as well as loving mothers
and highlight the changing role of the mom in today’s
society," said Joy Rose, founder of Mamapalooza and
lead singer of Housewives on Prozac. “Over the years,
the movement has grown, and it’s about letting people
know that moms are here, they rock and they are a force
to be reckoned with!”
I
arrived at the packed NYC Cutting Room press conference
knowing that not only are the groovy moms of Mamapalooza
here, but some of them are also queer. I was eager to
meet, interview, and spotlight the lesbian contingent
of the tour.
The
atmosphere at the crowded press conference was, on the
surface, the typical glitzy NYC showbiz bustle--yet a
certain, Fellini-esque air was present. All around, babysitting
dads were dutifully chasing after toddlers, while moms--resplendent
in stage outfits and rock regalia--were busy giving interviews,
networking, looking fabulous and making last minute preparations
for their evening show. Guests and media were offered
“Mad Housewife” brand chardonnay and cabernet
sauvignon (sponsor Rainier Wine’s new bid to target
female wine lovers).
Unusual
for a pre-rock concert affair, there was a special, down-to-earth
energy to the overall proceedings, a powerful blend of
“can-do” spirit and female comradery. These
mamas had done their promo homework and packed the place
with all manner of media: reporters, photographers, filmmakers,
tie-in advertisers, etc.
The
final touch of comical irony: amid all the female journalists
on hand from mainstream hetero publications like Parents
Magazine, Child Magazine, etc, the lone
male reporter there--yours truly--had come from a lesbian
website. Nevertheless, when the word spread that AfterEllen.com
was on the premises, women and moms from many of the Mamapalooza
acts graciously introduced themselves and talked up their
talent with me. A splendid time was had by all, and the
following represents a sampling of the lesbian talent
included in Mamapalooza 2005.
Kim
Char
I have hosted and performed with the very talented
Kim Char before. This whirlwind singer-songwriter-guitarist
is a lesbian mom of two fine adolescent sons whom
she sometimes brings with her on tour. Kim is also
the Chicago Events Coordinator for Mamapalooza and
one of the driving forces behind Women with Guitars.
Watching
Kim onstage, one can sense how well she could play
to an arena-size crowd, she gives off that much
energy. Known for her take-no-prisoners, no-nonsense
star-quality, Char looks every audience member in
the eye when she performs. With a pitch-perfect
voice that goes everywhere, Kim sings in a variety
of rock styles, and her songs address topics like
motherhood, indigenous Hawaiian culture (her home
state), women's issues, and good ol' rock 'n roll
fun. Kim’s latest CD is Give and Take
is available through her website.
Housewives
on Prozac
I had a ball chatting with Mamapalooza matriarch Joy Rose
of the glitter/glam band Housewives
on Prozac. HOP has performed at several gay, lesbian
and women’s festival events, and the band’s
line-up includes two lesbian players: Kyleann Burtt on keys
and vocals, and Donna Kelly on drums.
I
asked Joy about HOP’s signature song “Gay
Girls Make Great Moms.” She told me, “It
was written for my neighbors here in Hastings-On-Hudson.
They are a lesbian couple and have two daughters.
Our other signature song: 'I Don't Think Like My
Mom Anymore' honors the women who have gone before,
while acknowledging our generation is not afraid
to stretch the boundaries of what's possible in
the name of love, light, fun and anti-stereotype.”
The
lyrics of "Gay Girls (Make Great Moms)"
pretty much says it all:
Judy
and Evie wanted a baby / they had to devise a plan
Judy and Evie wanted a baby / but necessarily the
man
Well it’s a crazy world, it’s crazy
/ but it’s good
Well it’s wonderful, it’s marvelous
/ when mothers share motherhood